I have pride in my homeland, and in different circumstances there is a good chance that I would eventually return home. However, in 3 weeks I'm getting married to a Scottish girl, and I just feel life is easier for her here, where she is happy and settled. I still see Poland as my homeland and and will probably always do so, but after almost 5 years here in Scotland, its certainly become like my (second) home.
Yes your circumstances are very different to many and congratulations on your impending marriage !
That's real integration :-)
Some do, some don't.
Which ones do ? The plumbers and brickies or the architects and doctors ?