This Polish worker was in Denmark, and thats how we met. First, it was just for fun, but i have feelings for him.. But the problem is, that i first found out, when he was gone.. i cant stop Thinking about him..
My problem is, that I'm only 18 and he is 25.. Can it work? I miss so so so much, and he writes to me, that he misses me to, and he thinks of me day and night.. I'm so unhappy?
What to do? Is he to old? Should i forgte him? In that case, How?
Thank you, it is nice for some positivity. All my friends tell me to turn my back, But they dont understand my feelings for this guy.. I never felt this way ..
I am of the belief that if you turn your back and ignore this you'll always wonder what might have happened. Better you should try it and know how it would have went. Good luck. :)
Age is but a number. When you're old enough it is!
I'm sure nearly everyone has met someone and felt something, but stupidly let them go. "If only I had had the sense to get that girl's phone number!" kind of thing. You don't know what the future will bring, but you can make sure it brings you something. If you do nothing, it will bring you nothing (with this particular chap you'r etalking about at any rate).
Send him an SMS saying that you will pleasure him as soon as he comes back to Denmark. Then start your timer, and you will be surprised at how quickly he returns.
there is another forum that deals with age-gap relationships. Younger woman and older guys and visa versa. You may want to read their stories. Some are also long distance like you.
Dont worry about it and just go for it , its not about age its about how you feel about each other , belive me i know im dealing with this at the moment , life is a one way street so dont pass this up , just give it a try !!!!!
Thank you all! It have bin so much help! I have send him text messege, he will come home to my heart, when he have made money enough! Thank you so much. I Have told my steph mother, she is mad, mad, mad about it.. But I am wondering of might going to poland with him, Poland is so beautiful!
Good luck to you...if its love then it will work , you can only find out if you give it a go....don,t worry too much about the age difference , probably the culture difference might be more of a problem , but love can overcome this....If he treats you right your stepmum will grow to like him....
Be careful. He might have a girl in Poland and plays with you. Don't let your emotions take over, get to know him first before you fall too deep in love with him. Being away only creates images in your mine that are not true making him what he is not.
