My Ex wants to meet me while in Poland for Easter - what should I do?

Sparky359 6 | 46

1 Apr 2007 / #1

Hey guys,

well, I'm flying out to Poland on Tuesday for Easter, having heard my story so far, what would you advise if the ex wants to meet me while I'm there. I was just about getting her out of my head, not phoning or texting, when she must have realised hey what's going on, where is he. Thats when she started contacting me, asking when I was coming out next etc. I am in two minds whether to just go there, stay away, not make contact and if she wants to contact me, its her choice. Seems she isn't letting go 100%

BubbaWoo 33 | 3502

1 Apr 2007 / #2

totally blank her

Huegel_gast

1 Apr 2007 / #3

x2 Give her the cheque book and pen. No half measures, Les Dawson would be proud.

fathibest 2 | 25

1 Apr 2007 / #4

Come on!!

Everyone deserve a last chance rite?

Ranj 21 | 947

1 Apr 2007 / #5

Everyone deserve a last chance rite?

Not this girl.....she's been messing with his head for a longtime.....he deserves to move on with his life and find a girl who's more deserving of his affections.

szkotja2007 27 | 1497

1 Apr 2007 / #6

what would you advise

Forget it if you can.
Shes just gonna put you back a couple of months and you dont need it.

RazZ 1 | 180

2 Apr 2007 / #7

you want advice from a wise man( RazZ) :). here it goes. if you want to make sure what up with here, try to ignore her for sometime, that way you can know what she feel towards, as i said earlier "Ignorance is a bliss" go to poland, have fun on easter but dont go to her, if she calls tell her you are busy with your relative or something.( you can come up with something better)

shewolf 5 | 1077

2 Apr 2007 / #8

well, I'm flying out to Poland on Tuesday for Easter, having heard my story so far, what would you advise if the ex wants to meet me while I'm there.

Whatever you decide to do, I don't think the relationship can be the same as it was before. If you were to get back together with her, the way she treated you is going to bother you and get between the two of you. She already ruined it.

iza

8 Apr 2007 / #9

She is right

the traveller

10 Apr 2007 / #10

Since you are in this forum you have gained with your own effort the answer you deserve.

There is a unanimity in the majority of answers. I am glad.

I also vote for the same. Do not contact her. A relative situation has brought me a couple of months back. It is important to keep in mind that you broke up for a reason and apparently it was by her own initiative. Do not make this favour to her. One thing is sure: you have better and more important things to do.

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