I don't want to be mean, but 9 pages and no progress is a sure sign that it is not gonna work. Unless you are going for the PF record for the longest thread.
Most of the polish girls like it if a man behaves like a real man not like a '*****' ..
You are sending out very mixed signals with that one....
Relationships are Partnerships..It's not a one way street.
You make it sound like he should be all things and cater to her every whim and yet stand up to her and be man.....blah blah blah...and she should be allowed to be a hard faced b*tch when she feels like it and a little insecure girl who needs lots of attention whenever else she feels like it..
...No wonder men get bloody confused with women like you about!
But you're better off if she just gets mad. It's only a few minutes or hours you'll need to tolerate. Maybe even 15 hours a week. But you'll get used to it. Then you build a habit and learn to live peaceful with it. Plus, if she's the violent type who'll hit you or pinch you, your body will naturally get stronger (so no need to keep paying for those YMCA fees)
Now if she wants to get even.... she'll divorce you, take your money, invite you over to appoligize just to have her repeat the same thing. Then introduce you to a child who'se not even yours to begin with. But using her lovely Polish looks, will succumb you to her powers. Then you grow old and you realize you did have biological children with her, but she gave them up for adoption years ago. And so your bio-children finally learn of you but then don't respect you because their mother kept you oblivious to this whole fact of their existance for all this time; and once your children get married and become fathers themselves, they begin to understand that you weren't all that bad. Then she loses her Eighth and final husband and when you are lying down in the hospital bed, she'll gave you a call and tell you that she'd loved you soo much for all these years but didn't know how to show it. All the wanted was to have some fun, but would have always given you the last dance. She'll tell you "You were the first man in my life. And yes, I did have 8 husbands but thats because none of them could match up to you. I was lonely and desperate. I missed you soo much.". And then, you get the final message from God: Alright my child, its enough bullsh*t you've heard. Come to me..... And then...just maybe...you'll meet that right lady in the afterlife. Just maybe! And then, when she sees your lifeless eyes below her, she finally realizes what she has done to you; but now you are gone.
(I hope non of you ever experience the above)
Trust me brother, it's better to have a girl who'll have her occasional temper tantrums rather than have a girl who'll plot your distruction. Trust me, I've had the latter version.
I hope you got my sarcassm throughout this post.
I'll leave you with this.
"Dogs who barks won't bike. Its the quiet ones you got to worry about".
why are you still with your gf, GranPartita, if you complain so much? dumping her will make your life easier, don't you think? and maybe, you'll meet your next soul mate in a local church?
I am not with her. I cannot be with her anymore once she has proved to me that she is cheating, or if you'd like to say, planned to cheat on me. I'm letting out some of my feelings and experience so hopefuly this won't happen to anybody else.
give her one and tell her its her last while you're at it...life is hard enough without having to entertain a spoiled ***** like that, shes a ***** man, i cant myself clearer...
Men it is all about the consensus. If you dont rich this then it is ****, big ****. If you want to have private life, tell her then you are doing that for her, I dont know you want to go to the gym with your friends without her tell her that you want to be good looking for her. Go on this way. Believe Polish girls on the beginning very often want you just for yourself after 2, 3 years situation may changed. Trust me;)
My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this
She seems to be doing everything to loose you. She doesn't value your relationship at all and it never works out when only ONE in the couple does everything to stay together.
welcome to the world of relationships, happens to everyone Polish or not, and why would you generalize something like this to her ethnicity? it's her own personality not the country shes from, jeez i see this more and more on here...are people really that slow?
I laughed at this thread when I saw the original posting. I agreed with those who said it's not a Polish woman thing but could be any ethnicity.
Then I went to Poland and met up with an old girlfriend. She was jealous of me having any other friends in Poland, she flew off the handle at everything I said if she could somehow twist it to make it into an insult to her, when it wasn't, she found fault with everything I did and said.
And she's a married woman, and I'm another female!
