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Meeting two Polish women. Should I buy them both flowers?


Dav1d 7 | 8  
8 Mar 2009 /  #1
Hello

I am meeting 2 polish woman shortly, one of them I am in love with and I was going to take her some flowers but I was told that if I was to buy just one of them flowers it would be classed as"rude" because I did not get the other woman anything.

That confused me alittle because usually that is something I would do to show I have feelings for that person.

any suggestions?

Thanks.
Banford 1 | 19  
8 Mar 2009 /  #2
Who's the other woman? Is she a friend or a member of her family?
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
8 Mar 2009 /  #3
it would be very nice of you to get the other woman something, whether she's a flatmate or a relative of your lady. you can just get a small bouquet or a single flower for the other woman, make sure your ladys flowers are bigger and more special though, cos if you get two exact same bunches of flowers your plan of showing her how much she means to you will not work out! :)
chi 1 | 33  
8 Mar 2009 /  #4
I was going to take her some flowers

do that:)
....and to be on the safe side take one simple flower for the other woman...:)
Banford 1 | 19  
8 Mar 2009 /  #5
it would be very nice of you to get the other woman something, whether she's a flatmate or a relative of your lady. you can just get a small bouquet or a single flower for the other woman, make sure your ladys flowers are bigger and more special though, cos if you get two exact same bunches of flowers your plan of showing her how much she means to you will not work out! :)

do that:)
....and to be on the safe side take one simple flower for the other woman...:)

These ladies know!
MrBubbles 10 | 614  
8 Mar 2009 /  #6
take one simple flower for the other woman

I thought odd numbers were unlucky?
MrBubbles 10 | 614  
8 Mar 2009 /  #8
Are chrysanthemums bad?
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
8 Mar 2009 /  #9
YES. unless they're for a dead person :/ lol
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
8 Mar 2009 /  #10
I made this mistake before in Poland....
She would not even put them on the table :(
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
8 Mar 2009 /  #11
oh dear... yeah chryzantemy are meant for dead people...
Sokrates 8 | 3,346  
8 Mar 2009 /  #12
any suggestions?

Get her seven large yellow tulips, they've been my break-up shield when ditching women for well over seven years, they never fail:)
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
8 Mar 2009 /  #13
that's mighty kind of you! lol
BrokenOwl 1 | 5  
28 Nov 2009 /  #14
Nov 29, 09, 14:57 - Thread attached on merging:
Anyone with a taste for flowers (a gift for a Polish mother)?

Im meeting my girlfriends parents soon. Her father is looking forward to having a drink with me, and bringing a good bottle of booze is not a problem, but roses are for my woman only. Anyone know of a flower that is suitable as a gift for her mother? I'm thinking of ditching the flowers for chocolates since I haven't a clue.

I can just ask a florist, but where's the fun in that? Help me out people, what works? :)
mira - | 115  
28 Nov 2009 /  #15
Wouldn't it be easier if you just asked your girlfriend what flowers her mother likes?
Maybe tulips?Or lilies?
1jola 14 | 1,879  
28 Nov 2009 /  #16
Be sure it is an odd number. Buy 3 or five. No big bouquets, please. See which flowers look nice to you. You will devolop some flair if you buy your girl flowers often. Keep it simple.

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