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8 Apr 2007 / #1
Hey guys. I'm new here and am just getting fit in. Here's my story:
In April 2006, I was currently in college and at times, had a lot of free time where I was stranded from my circle of friends and needed to kill some time sometimes. So I thought up the idea to get a penpal from some exotic place other than the U.S. I posted my profile and received a bunch of responses and responded to a lot of them but...one message was different from the rest. It was from a girl from Poland looking to get another friend and improve her English. I was intially inerested in talking to her because most of my heritage is Polish. So I decided to write her and her alone.
We both talked to each other regularly up to this day. We eventually, started to like each other and almost love but were not sure about that. Yes, we know each other's mind inside and out but we haven't met yet so we don't know each other's actions, movement, etc (stuff a normal relationship would have). I do know I have strong feelings for her and she has feelings for me. I just can tell that this is a genuine, real relationship so there is no need for a concern of a scammer. I don't think a scammer would write me for this long of time.
We have planned that I visit her in August 2007 and then she will visit me after. I haven't noticed a huge cultural difference between personalities from her and American girls. There are small differences but that makes it exciting. Now, she does still live with her parents. She is 18 and I'm 21. So...I'm naturally scared to death but I won't tell her this. There are two parents, and three children including her. This is mind blowing because I have to jump inside this home with having a minimum knowlege of po polsku :)
Now help me, I've never been to Poland before nor another country, never met this girl, never met her parnents/siblings. What am I to do? What kind of gift do you bring the host? I have every possible question running through my head right now.
If you were in my shoes, what would your first action be when you step off that plane? Sincerely, help my cause :) I want to make a big, good impression but should I just play it by ear? Is that the best plan? Help me please.
Thanks
In April 2006, I was currently in college and at times, had a lot of free time where I was stranded from my circle of friends and needed to kill some time sometimes. So I thought up the idea to get a penpal from some exotic place other than the U.S. I posted my profile and received a bunch of responses and responded to a lot of them but...one message was different from the rest. It was from a girl from Poland looking to get another friend and improve her English. I was intially inerested in talking to her because most of my heritage is Polish. So I decided to write her and her alone.
We both talked to each other regularly up to this day. We eventually, started to like each other and almost love but were not sure about that. Yes, we know each other's mind inside and out but we haven't met yet so we don't know each other's actions, movement, etc (stuff a normal relationship would have). I do know I have strong feelings for her and she has feelings for me. I just can tell that this is a genuine, real relationship so there is no need for a concern of a scammer. I don't think a scammer would write me for this long of time.
We have planned that I visit her in August 2007 and then she will visit me after. I haven't noticed a huge cultural difference between personalities from her and American girls. There are small differences but that makes it exciting. Now, she does still live with her parents. She is 18 and I'm 21. So...I'm naturally scared to death but I won't tell her this. There are two parents, and three children including her. This is mind blowing because I have to jump inside this home with having a minimum knowlege of po polsku :)
Now help me, I've never been to Poland before nor another country, never met this girl, never met her parnents/siblings. What am I to do? What kind of gift do you bring the host? I have every possible question running through my head right now.
If you were in my shoes, what would your first action be when you step off that plane? Sincerely, help my cause :) I want to make a big, good impression but should I just play it by ear? Is that the best plan? Help me please.
Thanks