I recently got married to a Polish Wife, but it wasnt until i became married that i was made aware of the perilous financial position of her parents.
Her parents have had a chequered employment history, her father does odd-jobs, which are low paid. Her mum doesnt work. They are both 59. They owe approximately 40,000zl to various loan companies like Provident Financial, which they have accumulated over about 3 years.
They dont own a property, as the property they live in is owned by their daughter, who bought the property off them a few years ago to clear their debts then. The property is worth approx 240kzl.
They both smoke, and i suspect my father-in-law has a drink problem. They have 3 daughters including my wife who are all grown up.
Now, the daughter who owns the property thinks that all daughters should pay 200-300zl towards the parents upkeep every month until the debts are paid off. My wife is a housewife, so i would ultimately be giving them money, which i think is wrong.
Can anyone give me some advice in the situation? Is there a way out of this situation? What would you do in my position etc? Is this normal Polish behaviour from in-laws?
Thanks in advance,
Gunners
Her parents have had a chequered employment history, her father does odd-jobs, which are low paid. Her mum doesnt work. They are both 59. They owe approximately 40,000zl to various loan companies like Provident Financial, which they have accumulated over about 3 years.
They dont own a property, as the property they live in is owned by their daughter, who bought the property off them a few years ago to clear their debts then. The property is worth approx 240kzl.
They both smoke, and i suspect my father-in-law has a drink problem. They have 3 daughters including my wife who are all grown up.
Now, the daughter who owns the property thinks that all daughters should pay 200-300zl towards the parents upkeep every month until the debts are paid off. My wife is a housewife, so i would ultimately be giving them money, which i think is wrong.
Can anyone give me some advice in the situation? Is there a way out of this situation? What would you do in my position etc? Is this normal Polish behaviour from in-laws?
Thanks in advance,
Gunners