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How to impress a Polish girl


Rebekah 1 | 9  
22 Oct 2008 /  #1
I've met a really interesting Polish woman and I'd like to really impress her and her family. I know family and anyone taking a personal interest in her is very important to her. So I was wondering whats important to Polish women when it comes to someone trying to impress them and what sayings in Polish would really impress a girl who's hard to get.

Basically ...what do Polish women want?
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
22 Oct 2008 /  #2
size does matter
OP Rebekah 1 | 9  
22 Oct 2008 /  #3
Erm considering were both women I dont think thats gona apply lol
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
22 Oct 2008 /  #4
But it is.
Undress.
Look in the mirror.
See if nothing is too small, or too big ;)
OP Rebekah 1 | 9  
22 Oct 2008 /  #5
Hahaha, well its all in proportion. Luckily
See I've met a few polish women recently and theyre all very mysterious and I'm trying my hardest with this one, but a lil bit of their culture would really help me out
gtd 3 | 639  
22 Oct 2008 /  #6
So it seems you are both gay yeah?

Do you know how her family feels about this? The odds are they are not cool with it and this means you have zero chance of being involved with them as you would like. It is hard enough here to be accepted into a family as an outsider but gay? Not likely.

This is a very conservative society with overt and hidden Catholic influence. There are gay people here but the life for them is NOT as easy as in the West and it isn't cake for them there.

I'd also say knowing the crowd here you are going to get some abuse from a few folks. Maybe there is a forum or resource for gays in Poland that could be more helpful and without the judgment?

Most Polish women love flowers...I can't imagine that sexuality would change that but it is simply a guess.
OP Rebekah 1 | 9  
22 Oct 2008 /  #7
Yea we are and her parents know. And as far as I know they're 'O.K' with it. But she's not comfortable bringing people back to her parents anyway so.
gtd 3 | 639  
22 Oct 2008 /  #8
Ah great then you have a huge advantage as that is rare.

I am sure you are aware but family gatherings could be odd as not everyone in the family is sure to be so open. I had an American hating 'aunt' in my ex's family and man oh man she made life hell when she showed up.

Even if they are more relaxed about it the culture is not so just know it won't be easy. I've seen an occasional gay couple holding hands etc here and they get stared at and snickered about.

Sounds like you have a better chance than most though so good luck and don't let the simpletons get to you.
OP Rebekah 1 | 9  
22 Oct 2008 /  #9
Well shes very reserved anyway, like she doesnt like public displays of affection and shes not overly affectionate in general.
And yea I know I'm going to need luck lol thats why I'm on here to try and get an idea into her home life really
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
22 Oct 2008 /  #10
You sound secure in your sexuality, the way you write about her, she doesn't - dont push it and getting to know the family isn't really going to help your cause it may just push her away. Get to know her first and things will progress naturally.
OP Rebekah 1 | 9  
22 Oct 2008 /  #11
hmm no shes pretty much out and proud about it. I think maybe shes not to comfortable flaunting it in her parents faces perhaps, but to be fair I'd like to truely impress her first :)
gtd 3 | 639  
22 Oct 2008 /  #12
My view is someone that needs to be impressed isn't worth your time. Be yourself...be kind and respectful and if she likes you it will be obvious. If kind and respectful isn't working it is not the kind of person worth being with.
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
22 Oct 2008 /  #13
I'm guessing her parents live in Poland? If so, I would be surprised if they are totally cool with her sexuality, even if accepting of the situation, so it might be hard for you to win them over. For now, I would concentrate on her whilst taking an interest in her culture and asking about her family and upbringing. Apart from that, cook her a nice meal and do something romantic. Learn some nice words in Polish to say to her.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
22 Oct 2008 /  #14
hmm no shes pretty much out and proud about it

Cool, hurdle 1. jumped :)

think maybe shes not to comfortable flaunting it in her parents faces perhaps,

How many gay people do you know in the UK that are?

but to be fair I'd like to truely impress her first :)

I've know a couple of Polish women (I'll clarify - married - friends) and they are no different to my English mates, I'd just say be yourself and see if it clicks..nothing more, women are women at the end of the day.

I'll put it this way, how would you feel if someone was asking "how do I win the heart of an English girl" I'd say it's simple really if she likes you and if she is attracted to you physically and mentally it's got a good chance. :)
OP Rebekah 1 | 9  
22 Oct 2008 /  #15
What kind of things would you suggest? because I know that big jesters of romance can be a lil bit scary and being british Im tryin to figure out how to tone it down.
gtd 3 | 639  
22 Oct 2008 /  #16
First...don't send her a romantic "jester" as that would just be creepy ;)
OP Rebekah 1 | 9  
22 Oct 2008 /  #17
Damn it that means Ive gota send back that Jester hat I bought the other day lol

lmao!
secanix79 1 | 7  
22 Oct 2008 /  #18
Polish girls need more liverty and more money, Trust me !!!
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
22 Oct 2008 /  #19
secanix79

Does this apply to you, hence your nasty comment:


OP Rebekah 1 | 9  
22 Oct 2008 /  #20
Well every Polish girl I've met have been very independent and work very hard for what they have. And just because they want better doesn't make them money grabbing gold diggers so I think thats abit unfair to say that.
irishdeano 5 | 304  
22 Oct 2008 /  #21
Just be yourself and you will be fine
gtd 3 | 639  
22 Oct 2008 /  #22
Well every Polish girl I've met have been very independent and work very hard for what they have. And just because they want better doesn't make them money grabbing gold diggers so I think thats abit unfair to say that.

Don't sweat it. The truth is somewhere in the middle. I know you like a Polish girl but they are not all good nor perfect just as they are not all evil gold diggers. Don't get offended as nobody is calling YOUR girl names. We wish you luck ;)
southern 75 | 7,096  
22 Oct 2008 /  #23
whats important to Polish women when it comes to someone trying to impress them

Intellectual capacity,temperament,general laid back attitude,bohemian style,elegant clothes,mystery and being unpredictable.Also constant flattering,words in polish and being superstitious.

Basically ...what do Polish women want?

The prince in the white car.

From my experience lesbians are terrible with women,they do not know how to approach women at all.They are better in kissing women and stimulating them.
Jagdeep - | 1  
22 Oct 2008 /  #24
The best and most effective way to impress a Polish girl is to tell her you’re from India!
southern 75 | 7,096  
22 Oct 2008 /  #25
Yes,if you want her to use you as toilet paper.
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
23 Oct 2008 /  #26
what do Polish women want?

Probably a good man.... but you are a woman....ur name is Rebekah!... and it shows you are a female :S
southern 75 | 7,096  
23 Oct 2008 /  #27
How to impress a Polish girl

Show her your new strap-on.
sapphire 22 | 1,241  
23 Oct 2008 /  #28
Probably a good man....

not if you are a lesbian, which you would know if you had read the thread
gtd 3 | 639  
23 Oct 2008 /  #29
The details are everything. ;)

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