Ranj 21 | 948 29 Sep 2006 / #1I met a Polish man on a cruise ship last summer and we had an instant connection. He said he fell in love with me and proceeded to call me from the ship everyday, after I returned home (he worked on the ship.) His contract was up in August and he flew me to NYC to meet him while he was layed over (only 5 hours--4 of which were spent in customs or check-in lines). When he left me, he told me he loved me and wanted to come back soon to see me. Well, that's been 7 weeks ago and I have yet to hear from him. I know his father is somewhat controlling and was against him coming to USA for good, but why can't he just visit? I wonder if maybe he has a girlfriend or wife over in Poland, even though he told me he didn't. He seemed so sincere in everything he said and did, I just can't imagine what could have happened. I really felt this person was my soulmate. Any thoughts?