Its not about how it will catch up on Poland of smthing... it is about values, which people in Poland should realise, just like people anywhere in the world (including the west). We are all humans, and need to release ourselves under the warmth of the purest rays of the sun.
We are in love with each other (not just lust)
And he is still married. I will leave no comment here. Its your life.
but I guess every case is different.. so dont judge everyone who is 'living in sin' the same.
I almost never visit the Church (I am usually at the gym in that time :) ). .
And I am very open minded and love to study other religions. I believe in Christ and religions which came before him. I dont see todays Islam as good, but I see Mohammed as a very loving and spiritually guided being. I have interest in the Baha'i faith. More importantly... I realise that all of mankind is created by One God... and that God does not differentiate among its creatures...
About sin... I dont hate the sinner, I only hate the sin.
About Judging... I dont have the right to judge anyone my dear friend :). Here I am only giving out my opinion.
If at some poin in our life, we are privileged enough to realise that we need to follow a path (compromising our ego and desires) which is tough but true, then we should give ourselves a go...
In any case, marriage is that pure bond that must be kept pure for harmony and peace. Marriage is clean and filled with fresh air... is it the ultimate symbol of true love between a man and a woman, it is the seed of creation.
I try to keep my heart clean... I hope God will bless me by His presence in my heart :). I hope I can have the strength to accept all the goodness that He gives me. I pray that all my friends around to world (including my home, Poland) be blessed with realisation.
:) Good Luck.
:) ... have you seen the cartoon Pengu! :) ... I like it :)