Polanglik - you don't give your name. And where are you based?
Helena .... sometimes you get some some strange unsavoury characters on the forum, so I try to avoid putting too much personal detail on general view :o)
You can send me an email, by clicking on my profile. I am based in West London, not far from POSK (Polish Cultural Centre).
never heard one word of Polish until I was 15, so I didn't grow up with any identity of being Polish
I grew up learning Polish as my first language , so when I went to nursery I didn't understand a word of English; my mum always tells a funny story from my first days at school -
the teacher had been trying to teach me a few words in English, in particular the word 'house'. The teacher would show me a picture of a house and say the word
house whilst pointing to the picture. I was quite obstinate and every time she pointed to the picture I would reply ...
'Nie ... DOM'(house in Polish).
When it came to pick me up from school my mum asked how I was getting along, to which the teacher replied that she wasn't sure if I had learnt anything that day, but she had learnt that DOM is the Polish for house!!
Feeling Polish when I was growing up was easy because I had many friends in the neighborhood who were in the same boat as myself - we even arranged Poland v England football matches during break.time in the school playground.
There was the Polish church and many kids were part of Polish cubs/scouts and most attended Polish school on Saturday mornings.
We kept all the Polish traditions going ... celebrating 'Imieniny' (Saints Day) as well as birthdays, and St Nicholas's Day on 6th December and Wigilia (Christmas Eve). The language spoken at home was mainly Polish due to my grandparents looking after my brother and myself whilst my mum worked.
I have never thought of putting pen to paper to write any memoirs, but find flicking through old photo albums very nostalgic. I stopped going to Poland when I was about 12yrs old, and only returned in my thirties.
You can count me in on any book/web site you want to write about AngloPoles' views/experiences/memories of Poland under communist rule.