PaulinaK14 2 | 5
28 Dec 2008 / #1
Hello,
I have recently came back to Lodz after spending 5 quite difficult years in London.
I wanted to come back to be close to my family members ( my mom died on year ago ) and because of the houseshare in London ( I have my own flat in Poland ).
Anyway, I had quite good jobs in UK so I felt confident, independent and very happy on that level.
I truly belive I made this decision too late and now feel tired of having a nice, fresh start - I feel I don't fit very well in here. Truly, I am depressed.
Giving emotional support to my brother means that he will take everything you give it to him but you can't expect even simple "thank you". I quess, he doesn't see the same I see and is very unhappy himself.
The same with my father - he can be rude and doesn't show much respect sometimes.
He is my lovely father but I think our relationship was much better when I was away.
Although I am Polish myself, I found living in Poland now very difficult. People don't seem friendly, the houses are ugly and dirtly, my family is no longer the same as it used to be and I think I suffer kind of 'identity crisis". Just like not belonging here anymore. My confidence is getting weaker because all my friends have their own families and kids around while I don't. I just feel lonely and there is not many places to go for a drink etc.
I have just started looking for a job which hopefully will help, I suppose.
Honestly, I feel really run down and not happy at all. For me - it's such a serious, ssad, rude and strange life.
Anyone got the same ? How to overcome this crisis ?
I have recently came back to Lodz after spending 5 quite difficult years in London.
I wanted to come back to be close to my family members ( my mom died on year ago ) and because of the houseshare in London ( I have my own flat in Poland ).
Anyway, I had quite good jobs in UK so I felt confident, independent and very happy on that level.
I truly belive I made this decision too late and now feel tired of having a nice, fresh start - I feel I don't fit very well in here. Truly, I am depressed.
Giving emotional support to my brother means that he will take everything you give it to him but you can't expect even simple "thank you". I quess, he doesn't see the same I see and is very unhappy himself.
The same with my father - he can be rude and doesn't show much respect sometimes.
He is my lovely father but I think our relationship was much better when I was away.
Although I am Polish myself, I found living in Poland now very difficult. People don't seem friendly, the houses are ugly and dirtly, my family is no longer the same as it used to be and I think I suffer kind of 'identity crisis". Just like not belonging here anymore. My confidence is getting weaker because all my friends have their own families and kids around while I don't. I just feel lonely and there is not many places to go for a drink etc.
I have just started looking for a job which hopefully will help, I suppose.
Honestly, I feel really run down and not happy at all. For me - it's such a serious, ssad, rude and strange life.
Anyone got the same ? How to overcome this crisis ?