Love / Polish Girlfriend, but she is not single ... [35]

She may be waiting to see how serious you are, how long you'll stay with her. Most women know that the relationship changes after 6 months or a year as things cool. She doesn't want to give up a sure thing with her current boyfriend if your relationship fizzles.

If you really want her, show her that you love her, stick with her, make a commitment, buy a ring. Show her you're serious!

Love / Help for english girl to win affections of lovely polish boy. [4]

Well, you could meet some other Polish people who could take you out and explain to you about their culture. That way you wouldn't "make your mistakes" on this one.

Ummm....

Polish men are traditional -- they'll usually ask you out if they're interested.

Hmmm. Where I live in Chicago, there are lots of them, so if you screw up with one, you can find another.

Gee, I hope this helps.

Love / English Girls according to Polish Guys....... [68]

Well, I am an English woman living in Chicago and was dating a Polish guy and a Ukrainian guy (not at the same time). And while it is true that I am slightly fatter than many Polish women, I know that both men appreciated me because unlike skinny women, I have curves in all the right places!

Love / Polish women are more inhibited in bed? [51]

Perhaps the Polish women *you* sleep with are inhibited becoz you freak them out by asking weird questions like "Would you sleep with a bisexual man?"

Love / Are Polish men more loyal than English men? [38]

I think when they find the *right* woman, they are more loyal than English/American guys. They usually expect to make a commitment and marry someday...sooner rather than later.

But I think they have quite high standards. They really do want someone who is the good cook and housekeeper, takes care of herself physically, and spoils them rotten....career is fine as long as it doesn't interfere with the above.

My (now-ex) Polish boyfriend was shocked when he saw how messy my house was. I, on the other hand, felt justified, as I do have a six-year-old. But I wised up and cleaned the place up. I actually like my home more now.

So if you can handle the parameters -- go for it!

Love / What gift to buy for Polish friend / ex lover? [5]

A silk scarf? Feminine, but not suggestive of a commitment.

Problem with jewelry, roses, chocs. etc. -- implies a romantic commitment.