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ladybird   
7 May 2007
Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

She was a quiet ,catholic family friend and even though I knew she fancied m husband I always thought she was too quiet and nice to try something. When I found out it was going on for a few months. Then she called me to find out if I was having sex with my husband! We are together as a family again but it's going to be difficult to regain the trust. Since this happened I found out that is quite common for polish girls t have affairs with married men.
ladybird   
7 May 2007
Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

I did!!!!!!!!!
And I'm not blaming only her... But what's with the catholic values? Iam an atheist and my moral values ans sense of family would not allowm me to do something like this...
ladybird   
7 May 2007
Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

Absolutely...
But the worse is the hipocrisy about it. How can you preach values, don't abide by them and when the sh**** hits the fan, kneel in the church and beg for forgiveness, even if one year down the line you're still doing the same sh***** as one year ago! Ridiculous!!!
ladybird   
7 May 2007
Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

do polish girls prefer married men?

She was a quiet, catholic family friend...Since then I've found out is quite common for polish girls to like married men. I actually think is an eastern europe women speciallity...
ladybird   
7 May 2007
Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

you might be right angel eyes It's actually second time and I know he's an idiot but we have children and for their sake I'm givingi it another go.I'm holding my breath but Iam not stupid and I am ready to be without him...

And she is still around trying o get to him... I actually feel she's a bit of a bunny boiler.
She changed jobs so she could e next tohim and changed houses and lives 5 minutes away from us... I don't think I will ever get rid of her.
ladybird   
7 May 2007
Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

we've separated for 6 months and my son suffered a lot, he was only 5 at the time end idolizes his daddy. But for sure this s is last chance to keep this family together...

Thanks for the advice...
ladybird   
8 May 2007
Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

funny, you blame the girl

and I know he's an idiot

She was a family friend so something was broken there if nothing else her dignity as a woman. And I do blame the all thing 50/50, but the fact is she will go on to someone else and I'm the one left to pick up the pieces and I have to remain strong for myself my children and my family as a unit. She knew it was wrong, she knew us as a family and she ate at our table and she would dscribe us as the perfect family. SO PERFECT SHE WANTED IT FOR HERSELF...

This means polish girls will speak about marriage soon,in fact when they decide to have sex with someone.They talk about churches and things like that.This talk is the catholic culture.

When she told her parents she had found this perfect guy and he was "going to look after her" she forgot to mention the "perfect guy" already had a family to look after and was probably only looking for an extra bite on the side because routine ha settled into his own marriage. Two cowards...


Margarat

When she told her parents she had found this perfect guy and he was "going to look after her

Why would any self respecting women need a guy to look after her?! It seems to me she would do anything to get a guy.

It is not the first time I hear those stories about polish girls and commited men. I think it is a matter of culture, beause they are raised to get married and they usually do it at a very young age so they can fly the nest... Iknow you're an atheist, ladybird but believe me "what goes around comes around" and she will learn her lesson. And so will he, a shame it is not trough you.
ladybird   
10 May 2007
Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

its much easier for you to blame it all on the girl

I do blame the all thing 50/50,

You're not really that naive at 25 and I don't think it is a matter of age but more a matter of caracther and personality and as the all topic started, culture. Eastern european women maybe because they lived repressed for so long do tend to get involved in "forbidden" relashionships. I also think Poland is the most arrogant Eastern country and therefore specially people abroad tend to reafirm their worthiness at any cost. Thanks for your wishes Saphire but I am not seating down feeling sorry for myself, If nothing else this made me stronger and has shown me I can cope very well on my own. We're staying together because it is worth it to try because we love each other but if it finishes I am very cool with it.
ladybird   
14 May 2007
Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

I'm not sure I could forgive a man for cheating, which is kind of ironic given my own circumstances

Cheating no matter how we play around it, brings heartache and it can have serious consequences. I have no doubt if he loved her they would be together as he's a very strong minded person, but when it came to choose he decided to stay where he felt he belonged. There is no contact whatsoever between them and I wouldn't take him back otherwise. I hope you're not in the same situation bcause someone is going to suffer deeply and is not worth it. Life is too short for this kind of ****!
ladybird   
16 May 2007
Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

how Islam deal with this social problem

I'm curious now!!!! Don't tell me they would cut his thingy off!!!

Joking apart, in my modest ignorance, in islam i always thought this kind of behaviour would not be condemned in a man,because they are allowed to have more than one woman, so I would have to stay quiet in order for him to spread his love around and she would probably be on her second child by now. Could we all live in the same house?
ladybird   
16 May 2007
Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

Its easy to judge others and to think we would act differently, but until you are in the situation you just dont know.

Why do I have this feeling we're touching a subject close to your heart Sapphire?