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matthewssz   
7 Nov 2009
Work / I'm 19, born in Poland, raised in the U.S. Moving to Poland..or not? [25]

That is how it works in the US.

Through out the 19th and mid 20th century, Poles had it bad in the US, often considered little better then black people, who were easily stuck at the bottom of the socio-economic ladder for obvious reasons. For a long time being "white" meant you were an Angelo-Saxon Protestant and not much else. So more or less a transplanted Englishman. It was acceptable to be Roman Catholic if maybe you were French, but defiantly not Irish, Italian, or Polish etc...

Often the only advantages Poles had in the US was that they weren't blacks, and they were limited to the same crappy jobs that Mexicans do in the US now. But in the modern US, education trumps all because it is so intertwined with material success. So it is no surprise that the children of immigrants who value academic success... i.e Eastern Europeans, Jews, or Asians etc... do very well in the future.

So, I guess there are two ways to look at it. #1, you have empathy for those at the bottom because you, or your elders, experienced the same abuse.

#2, conversely, the cycle of discrimination and abuse continues because it is all they know and now that they are now in a position to discriminate, its just natural. I think #2 is far more common.
matthewssz   
30 Jul 2009
Life / How do Poles view Polish-Americans? [8]

My family is native to Krakow, though neither my mother nor my father have been back since they left for the US in the '50s as small children. I've never been outside of North America, but I'd love to see Europe and of course Poland, so I'm going to make it happen, you can get sweet deals on airfare and trans-atlantic cruise lines at the moment.

Given that my income is exclusively derived online, I could could probably stay almost any where in the world for an extended period of time provided I got WiFi, my US mobile numbers work, and I have a secure place to store files and two laptops. I just need to be home around the US tax season where I need to do work in person for a couple of months.

One of my life goals, (the ones you really never get around too, for the most part) is to learn Polish, even though my parents were born there, they are no help, and I'm sure no Pole would want to hear their California influenced Polglish , rather they would just rather converse in English. So I'm really thinking about just staying in Krakow for a bit, after I hit up all the standard European places of interest like London, Paris, and Amsterdam. And of course, Krakow could be a good home-base to see other cool places in the general region like Prague, Budapest, Vienna, etc... that many Americans never get around too. All the beautiful churches and cathedrals in Krakow and Europe will give me a reason to finally attend mass again after years and years of blowing it off, much to the horror of my Grandmother. Though Polish mass is no joke, at least it was not in New Jersey.

I'm a nice guy, 26 years old, impeccable manners, and for obvious reasons I am very interested in the life, culture, and language of Poland. Other then that, I'm certainly nothing special, so I'm curious as to how I will be received? I just want to learn and experience a way of life that was my Grandparents and Great Grandparents, the latter were all killed by the Nazis or NKVD... There was a lot of pain and suffering experienced by my Grandparents, so that is probably why they never went back, nor ever pushed my parents to do so as well, as we are Americans and America has been good to us, thank god. But any way, I want to go back and see things for my self.