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I'm pregnant by my Polish boyfriend but he wants me to abort it! [132]
i have to admit my first thought was to contact this girl and tell her all about me but unfortunately he's smart enough to suspect that i'd do this so i have absolutely no access to his phone to get her number. the only other way is through nasza-klasa, which i might try... i don't know if that would do any good tho.
i can't really blame her as he's told her all along that he was single and she knows nothing about me! even if she was an ex girlfriend it would be a bit more understandable but all he's had with her so far is internet contact... until the end of the month when he meets her for the first time..
thanks as well for all your comments, they are helping..
i've stopped answering him so i can think properly because he's trying his hardest to tell me all the reasons i shouldn't keep the baby and how he's really sorry but it will ruin his future and blablabla..
if i had listened to half the sh** he's saying i would have topped myself by now. luckily tho i'm not but it's still an impossible decision either way.
So you guys had sex without contraception, you had no period for 2 months and you were still suprised when you found out you're pregnant. Considering the fact you're English, I wouldn't really blame a boy for being rather into a Polish chick, though he's obviously an azzhole telling you whether you should abort.
Firstly i am not English, if i were then i wouldn't be talking about "going to the UK to abort it". we always used contraception but it didn't work. Not all contraception is 100% effective all of the time.
Then again, you're not much better sleeping with him in the first place.
He was my boyfriend and was a lot nicer before this happened!! have you never slept with your boyfriend no???