Posts by BlodynLily

BlodynLily

21 Jan 2009

Love / Help! I just don't understand him.. [36]

There's no such thing as friendship between a man and a woman and definitely not in your case

But I'm friends with loads of people that are guys (and I've never slept or done anything with them by the way)....
Hmm. I think I'll just talk to him now and again, but it I'm going to make it clear that it can't be like it was before. Give him the cold shoulder a bit....

Then if he cuts contact completely, it'll definately show that it wasn't our friendship he was interested in....

Thanks for your advice :D

BlodynLily

21 Jan 2009

Love / Help! I just don't understand him.. [36]

You know i just realised what a demoralised prick i used to be.

Lol can you relate to his situation then?
Well you know what they say, women are from Venus, men are from Mars, and it's so true!

As much as I hate to think of losing contact with him, do you think it would be better to remain friends, but just cut the whole flirting bullshit? I'll make it clear that I don't want to be his 'bit on the side'...

BlodynLily

21 Jan 2009

Love / Help! I just don't understand him.. [36]

best thing is to let him go fuck himself or his girlfriend or whoever he wants as long as its not you

Hahaha best piece of advice so far!

Ignore him. Drop him like a hot kartofle

Yeah I think I will :)
Do you think ignoring him will just make him want to try and chase me again though?

BlodynLily

21 Jan 2009

Love / Help! I just don't understand him.. [36]

Honesty can hurts sometimes, but someone should persuade that poor girl senslessity of her acts

Im not senseless, just trying to make sense of the situation.

He wants to put his sweet love on you and then settle down and marry someone else.

But why on earth did he start this then if he knows in the long run he doesn't want anything out of it?
I guess some men are just complete arseholes :/ lol

Do you think I should confront him about it....? or bad idea?

Thanks x

BlodynLily

21 Jan 2009

Love / Help! I just don't understand him.. [36]

you appear to be insanely silly and simple minded girl

I know, I probably am. But only when it comes to guys. But aren't most young girls?

He surely IS playin with you, with no doubts

Now so many people have said it. I think he is too. I'm dissapointed, because I always got the vibe that maybe him and his girlfriend wasn't working out, but oh well.

keeps tellin and showing it to you straight way.

Yes I always wondered why he was being quite forward after hardly knowing me. But I seemed to think that being open with somebody was just part of Polish culture...

and seriously, I would never so much as kiss a guy if I knew he had a girlfriend. I didn't even bother to react to him putting his arm around me when I first met him. I just somehow got taken in by his flattery. Something I will never do again :(

Thank you for your honesty

BlodynLily

21 Jan 2009

Love / Help! I just don't understand him.. [36]

Haha well at least your being honest...
To be honest, I have a lot of common sense and would never just sleep with a guy because he sweet talks me.
I've decided Im going to ignore him for the time being, he can do what he wants :)
I guess things will become more clear in the future....

BlodynLily

19 Jan 2009

Love / Help! I just don't understand him.. [36]

Hmm I guess.
Oh well, I'll just let nature take it's course :)

Thanks for the help though!
x

BlodynLily

19 Jan 2009

Love / Help! I just don't understand him.. [36]

Eurgh.
I was afraid of answers like this lol
He doesn't seem like the type of guy to play me :/
Mind you, I've fell for guys like this before, except they haven't been polish lol
Are most Polish guys like this?
They all seem so nice....

BlodynLily

19 Jan 2009

Love / Help! I just don't understand him.. [36]

I've been contemplating writing about this for a while now, so I think now is the time!

I met a 19 year old polish guy back last year (Im 18 by the way) and have been in contact with him ever since. When I was out there, the first night I met him he was very flirtatious, commenting how pretty I was, and always looking at me...

Anyway, I still talk to him on skype. Everytime I speak to him he continues to be flirty, commenting on how he can't wait to meet me again, and how he wonders 'how it would be'.

I'm driving myself insane, I think about him all the time, and he's also said how he 'thinks about me now and again and wonders how it would be when we meet again'. He always puts 'love you' or 'kocham cie' on the end of emails, but hasn't replied to my recent email when he usually does. It's not like he probably hasn't checked it because he's been online on skype but sometimes just signs straight back out :/

I always get these mixed feelings, but know when he speaks to me again, he'll continue to be quite romantic towards me. He often says how he is always happy when he speaks to me as well.

The catch is, he has a girlfriend, and now and again I'll ask if they are ok, and he always says 'yes' and changes the subject...he has said in the past that she can be quite a jealous person.

Can somebody help me understand this guy please? lol

Thanks!
x