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My polish g/f can be a nightmare,is it always like this [262]
Come on Smiffer,
get a grip on life, my friend
I am from jamaica, although living in london as british citizen; my financee is polish, POLSKA through and through, I CAN'T CHANGE THAT AND DON'T WANT TO, she is a tough, resilient woman although just 27; if there there is something I don't like, I approach the issue, WE TALK IT THROUGH, and try to understand why we act in a certain way and agree on how to deal with it. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO FIND THE ANSWERS TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS ON THIS FORUM. Do the decent thing and give her the opportunity to explain her actions; if all else fails and you can't reach an understanding and it's unbearable; then don't lie down like a red carpet, call time out, because you're not only wasting your time and energy, you're wasting hers. Polish women are beautiful and endearing, they are no different from any other woman; they just have different inbred family and cultural values, as do people from other nationalities. If you are Polish you will understand that, if you are not you will have to LEARN; or don't get involved.
hope you work it out, but talk to her, THAT'S WHERE YOU NEED TO START MY FRIEND...
in saying all that, no one should have to live with threat of 'i'm breaking up with you' hanging over their heads... and can't speak to your mother, THAT'S SERIOUS, sit down and talk this over...find that strange 'cause women are usually so family oriented.....sit down with HER and SPEAK YOUR THOUGHTS....
