Life / Why are Polish people cheap? [126]

my dad loves making up polish jokes because i married a pole... none of them ever make sense, but its funny to him cause "polish" is in it lol

he means no harm, he's just old. <3

i dont understand how one country can have such hate towards another. i understand hatred towards an individual, but an entire country or nation? grow up.

i grew up in germany, moved to america and went to a jewish church. thats how the world should be.

Life / Polish Military Tattoos [12]


is what is most important.

Love / A Polish Married Girl Rocks my boat!! [54]


have you tried self sacrifice? put yourself aside (i know you are willing to do this for your kids)... put yourself behind your wife. completely put her first and put all effort into her... see the response.

if there is no positive response than you can walk away knowing you aren't at fault. but if you dont truly self sacrifice for her than you are just as guilty for the marriage falling apart.

marriage isnt about you, its about the other person. and when both people realize that, marriage is wonderful.

Life / Cigarette Smoking in Poland [146]


no he seriously doesnt "need" it for an addiction... i have walking pneumonia so for the past month or so he hasnt smoked at home or in the car, only when at work. its no big deal to him...

when i was pregnant last year i told him he was not allowed to smoke at all, again no big deal he literally didnt smoke (we worked together at that point at the same office so i know he wasnt smoking at work or anything lol). it wasnt a big deal to him cause he respected mine and our childs health (then when we lost the baby we both started smoking, but as soon as i got over it i got over smoking too)

he just does it cause he can.

Life / Cigarette Smoking in Poland [146]

my husband actually smokes just because he likes to... he doesnt have any form of an addiction to it... he just likes to do it. he doent mind the smell, he doesnt care what kind of cigarette it is... he just likes the act of smoking. he doesnt do it when he's frustrated or sad or mad or anything and he says he doesnt even feel any different after a cigarette... just likes the act of doing it.

it freakin pisses me off. i hate smoking, hate the smell, hate how i have to drive with my windows down in the f*cking cold so i can breathe while he smokes

Genealogy / strange Polish mixes [116]

i am 1/2 german, 1/4 welsh, 1/4 english... and somewhere back way a spanish guy was said to have raped someone in my family, so we have a bit of spanish somewhere in us. apologies to any spanish on here lol, i dont mean anything negative towards you, just family history

my grandmother is straight from germany but was adopted and raised by irish immigrants who lived in america. what would puzzler consider her? german, irish, or american?

my husband is 1/2 polish, 1/2 lithuanian.

we both have the really light sky blue european eyes! his are almost a clear blue, hopefully our kids will too.

Genealogy / how many know their own family histories? [139]


thats where i am from el gato!
well lancaster.

Genealogy / how many know their own family histories? [139]

my fathers side doesnt go far back because of his mother...
my grandmother (my dads mother) was still in her mothers womb when she came over from germany. her mother was apparently a ***** who had become pregnant and sold her to an irish family (adoption they call it lol) who had just moved to upstate NY and bought a large farm out there.

being "bought" by this family turned out to be the best thing for her, because they became christians and officially adopted her and raised her like their own child instead of the "farm help" they had bought her to be.

my grandfather (my dads father) goes back really far into the dutch/german culture and they have it fully researched and everything so i didnt look much into it. they showed it to me and we are german from Leipzig Germany.

my moms side is also fully dictated and is german/welsh but i never was as interested in it. i suppose its because her father and step mother are asses and i have no interest in them.

Life / Polish Military Tattoos [12]

we used to sing a song called "el gato" in elementary school lol

he wants something thats original and not common in america... he was looking into "iron wolf" because he is infantry...

Love / A Polish Married Girl Rocks my boat!! [54]


i totally feel her on the twisted feelings

there are sometimes i sit back and think "does this really work for me?! do i really want this guy?"
then i have to smack myself out of thinking that because it normally over something stupid like
(omg before i was married i went rock climbing three times a week but now i cant, what was a thinking) lol

you gotta think of the other person first, and then you wont be confused about your relationship

Life / Polish Military Tattoos [12]

his family has passed down the family crest... its a goat or something. he's not real into goats

and he has seen the pw as well, one of his great somethings had it

Love / A Polish Married Girl Rocks my boat!! [54]


there are two "loves"

"in love" you can fall OUT of... "in love" is closer to infatuation.

"love love" is when you fully sacrifice yourself to the other. you are not your own anymore, youre just fully enveloped in your service for the other. "love love" is not about yourself, its about the other person

with that in mind, when you choose to marry someone and claim that you "love love" them, than you should always sacrifice and put your whole being into serving that person. when you do that, you cant help but "in love" them as well. because your whole live surrounds their very being

Love / A Polish Married Girl Rocks my boat!! [54]

women are crazy, thats the bottom line
XD

lol i think youll die in peace if you grant others peace

that generally seems to be the way things work... what you dish out is what you reap

Love / A Polish Married Girl Rocks my boat!! [54]

whatever happened to "till death do us part"

?

im not judging him, im just saying its better to leave marriages alone. for everyones sake.

Love / Polish Girlfriend, but she is not single ... [35]

if she doesnt respect the guy she is currently with than who is to say she will respect anyone else?
im a girl myself and i even admit to that.

why cant she be honest with the guy? if they both mutually are falling away from each other, than it wont be a big deal to still support and help each other till each one is on their own feet. if it isnt mutual between the two of them than you shouldnt get involved anyways. its their business not yours.

the best thing you could do is release her to take care of her present situation.

respect wins hearts, not possession and passion.

Love / A Polish Married Girl Rocks my boat!! [54]

please dont mess with someones marriage.

if you are "in love" with her, than you will respect her enough to leave her marriage alone.

Genealogy / Polish surname meanings and origins [25]

His family is from Frackville PA... which has a large Polish community. They have Polish fairs every three months and the Polish Fest i swear its monthly

Genealogy / Polish surname meanings and origins [25]

Kowalski is mine! Interesting that it means "blacksmith"... my family has a 20 acre horse farm in Pennsylvania... I was riding horses before I could even walk.