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Bendable Bones   
30 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

For about a year now I've been interested in a Polish teacher at my school. He knows how I feel and ever since I've told him, he seems to be warming up to me more and more. I write him mini love notes and he's been keeping them all. He has all of them in a stack in front of his keyboard. Only thing is...he's married...with children. I don't want to be a homewrecker, but I can't get over him. I believe he likes me in return, but at the same time its hard to read him. I would like to wait until I graduate to 'make a move' but my question is, should I make a move?
Bendable Bones   
30 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

Meh, it's a complicated relationship we have.

And about his career, I would only really, REALLY start to put the moves on after I graduate (if there was still any connection) and then it wouldn't be a crime to do things. I'm of legal age here. I've studied teacher-student relationships and I know not to do anything until after graduation.
Bendable Bones   
30 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

I think I would know what we have considering I've been around the man everyday for over a year.
Bendable Bones   
30 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

-sadness ensues-

Well, I honestly don't want an ongoing sexual relationship. Not even sex to be blunt. It be nice, yes, but not needed. A chance to have dinner together with or without his wife would be awesome.
Bendable Bones   
30 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

How many licks does it take to get to the center!?!?

Answer me this - Why does the teacher we've been discussing like to be referred to as 'My Lord' (spelling is wrong on that) and not Sir? He's a strange Polish man.
Bendable Bones   
30 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

Hahahahaha, I got a great laugh from those last 2 posts.

He's harmless, guys. (In a non sexual way)
Bendable Bones   
30 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

He is. You can believe me or not. I don't lie :D

I'll watch my back. Or at least try to.
Bendable Bones   
30 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

Lawl! I don't want to 'ho it up.' He doesn't like agressive women who dress like sluts.

He doesn't have 2 women. Just his wife :P
Bendable Bones   
30 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

Like I said, I know this man well. He has no problem telling me of his personal life.

I even made him Raspberry muffins for his birthday :D
Bendable Bones   
31 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

He has a nice, church going family which I haven't met formally, and they probably don't deserve anything bad to happen to them.

Is there still anything wrong as maintaining a 'friendship' basis with him?
Bendable Bones   
31 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

I was after school with him today as a matter of fact. Just discussing his heritage and whatnot. Normal stuff.
Bendable Bones   
31 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

Words of wisdom _Sofi_. I liked what you had to say.

I asked him today why he kept my notes and he replied, "because I haven't gotten around to throwing them away yet. -laughter-"

Perhaps he only likes the attention I've been giving him (which is a helluva lot).

Another thing I've noticed is that he doesn't wear his wedding ring.. Any thoughts on that?
Bendable Bones   
31 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

Yes, his children are quite young. Still in car seats :\

I'm always careful not to 'push' him into anything. I watch my words. The only thing I do is give him small notes written in Polish and he keeps them by his keyboard. I can't control if he keeps them or not, but I know I can control if he recieves them.

I feel strongly for his wife. I'm sure she's a lovely person and has wonderful, outstanding morals, and is a great mother. I have nothing against her whatsoever. It so happens to be I'm sexually attracted to her husband, and he flirts in return. If he wouldn't flirt back with me, I'm sure I would have gotten over him quickly after I first noticed him. But him flirting with me in return gives me a sense that he's diggin' me and wants something more.
Bendable Bones   
31 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

Extra..thang?

No, it's not worth tearing apart a family who have never done wrong to me. I don't see why I should do wrong to them.

I've had love before and I'd kill for it again. But this, this isn't lust. You can call me naive, but I am me, and I know how I feel. I will one day eventually get over this man. In the mean time, I can't seem to not think about him. It's sad really when I have much more to think about like my future rather than a 42 year old man.
Bendable Bones   
1 Nov 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

Willy, are you in your early 40's? :D

And sapphire, how would meeting his wife make things worse if nothing is going on bewteen him and I?
Bendable Bones   
1 Nov 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

i like one my teacher very much
never try to get closer but now, when i think about it... hell, why not?
hehe thx for idea

Anytime :D
Bendable Bones   
1 Nov 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

Bones ( I love that sitcome), are you in denial or something?
In my (humble) opinion you are on a little game/power trip/ tease/ have nothing else to do/don't want to date my peers/other excuses/blah/blah/blah/like to play with fire/attention seeker trip.
If you really cared for him, you would not tease him.

I'm not in denial, I'm not on a powertrip/tease/nothing else to do.

I don't tease him. He teases me.
Bendable Bones   
2 Nov 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]

lawl no

i just didnt have anything else to say so i said the next closest thing on my mind