Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]

hmmm... if you realy love her - fight for it, she may not forget, but if she forgive.... and if she will be able to trust you some day ... maybe you can rebuild, what you destroyed, but you must work realy hard on this one, she must believe that it is worth to try. that you are worth, and that you believe in you two. you have to speak with her, you have to tell her what you feel and have a hope... i dont know her personally, so i can't say for sure, but... maybe it's worth to try

Love / Rules for dating Polish girls [189]

dear everyone
if you wanna your own polish lady, please dont treat her as an idiot in a first place. we are not mothers teresas, we wanna man not a child, and we don't care about your pocket as much as you think. why we are speaking with you ? we have different reasons we are looking for a friend or romantic story like from fairytale or... just for a romance, a little flirt maybe, but if we are putting our efford to get to know you- we are intrested in your personality, so instead of your bank statment, prepare intentionall letter

let me present my point of view
im 20, polish, from small town(brodnica/torun). i haven't seen communism, i'm pretty,single and i don't care about your money. does it make me a perfect matterial for Your wife?(and do you think that i care?)is it all? what is the moust important thing in your life? how about your friends? are you surrouded with shallow ppl?or maybe you 're surrounding yourself with them? shallow ppl are everywhere im afraid.

some of you are bad experiensed maybe, but if you 're puttin us, polish girls , on a stand of a kind, you have to be aware that not all of us are perfect and some of us may have more material way of seeing the world. but thats a question of happyness. what does make you happy? and if you're not independent(you're too young or too old or you don't know the language) can you afford to not care about the money at all? yea, i mean, ofcourse, there can be material girls in poland, it is just that i dont know any. but i can understand that everyone is looking for happyness whatever it is for him/her.

Whats more, i can tell you,we are not THAT poor. we are not waiting for oportunity to sell ourselfs. WE are NOT DESPERATED. even if you dont have good opinion about polish economic situation, we DO HAVE hot water,place to live, often nice one, home electronics,computer hardware, sometimes even car or two before30.

we are pretty(its my opinion) we care about hous and fammily, we have jobs, own intrests and opinions. we are not pets. and you can not just buy us.it would be too easy dont you think so?we are like every woman, we want you to care, to talk, to appreciate us,to love us and what we are doing.is it so much?

we are not ideals but who is?And Hey, if you are the one by a chance aren't your friends finding you boring?:P cose for instance my ideal isn't ideal.

so... could you guys stop atacking us for not making your dreams come true? it's nice that you like Polish girls....but we are girls,not goddeses, not shrews, we are humans.

thanks x

Love / Rules for dating Polish girls [189]

maybe

Love / Rules for dating Polish girls [189]

ok maybe mean that maybe they are

i like torun, im on university here:)

Love / Rules for dating Polish girls [189]

i like to think that we are quite idealistic( at least until some other ppl makes us more realistic ...)

Love / Rules for dating Polish girls [189]

yea, true, but more than half of my group is from bydgoszcz and we dont have any problems with that, we know this are just stereotypes and we are doing more fun of it than we care

about polish girls:every one is different some are romantic some are adventures and romantic and some wants just fun like in every country i suppose

Love / Rules for dating Polish girls [189]

hmmm 30+...we got more western culture - films and stuff... world is changing but hey- when my mum was young poland was more.... conservative... it was unacceptable for a woman to leave the husband ....

ok, i was in UWCad, on a sholarship its shool where are studying ppl from 84 countries and sure there are

Love / Rules for dating Polish girls [189]

europeans are different from africans and latin americans are different from asians... but i learned that its just matter of a culture, not personalitty, the aims are the same, morality, way of seeing good and bad, black and white...

about comunism- no, in poland it wasnt same as in ZSRR and there people care more about money cose they dont have it, you know, russia is a country of contrasts

Love / Rules for dating Polish girls [189]

oh... some of them do , some of them do more than others but tell me what do you mean by "care about money" if i see ppl who really does- they are usually not working, not that they are not educated, its that they would pay for buss, food and stuff almoust more than they would earn, and yes they care for money, to survive..... moust of polish ppl are in middle class like me, we are well educated, specially my generation and we can afford a normal life. i have as much than i dont have to be worried about tommorow or next year or... so its fine, and there are ppl who has more and some of them wants more than they have- its normal isnt it?

about culture - its changing - not long time ago everybody had the opinion that you "should wait for your only love" and now my little sis is wathing programms on mtv like virgin diary where 14-years olds are having their first time with a camera , ok my sister will not follow but maybe some girls who are looking for acceptation will and that scares me, if my child will some day dream of hollidays with "hilltons" it will be a tragedy for me, i liked the scout camps in the forrest.

Love / Rules for dating Polish girls [189]

agree with wrocław -moust wants to finnish the university first, we wants to be independent, we have to be able to care about ourselfs and we have our own intrests and ambitions -any strange with that?