Love / In love with polish cleaning woman, but don't speak an OUNCE of polish :( [57]

No offense, but this seems like a "hail Mary" pass for the game winning touchdown. But I applaud your initial effort. I personally call it quits if there's an extreme language barrier.

You can get all the suggestions on "Polish Sweet Talk" all day. But are you going to remember everything word for word when you're in her face, nervous from wondering if she's understanding your broken polish? My suggestion to you is to buy a Polish translation book and carry it with you to work. At this point, being embarrassed has to go out of the window. Just go for it. Besides, butchering up the words and having her laugh at you might break a little more of the ice for someone who's got someone flirting with her while she has a broomstick and a dustpan in her hands. You dig where I'm coming from?

But believe me, someone else in the factory is looking at her too. So the sooner, the better. Invite her out for coffee or something to get her away from the "workplace environment". It's worth a try. Good luck!

Love / HOW CAN POLISH WOMEN KEEP A BLACK MAN? [84]

I don't know how you can keep every black man from every culture but I can vaguely answer, "How can Polish women keep most black men from the U.S. who like dating foreign women?"

Answer: Watch and observe how women from the U.S. treat their men and then do the direct opposite.

OK, I was being facetious. To honestly answer that question, it depends on you and that guy. Number one, be yourself. Please drop all slang, ebonics, Air Force One's, Yankees caps turned to the side, and the baggy jeans. And we don't need you to breakdance to the latest T-Pain song. You'll certainly attract a boy or a poser with that. I know some of you ladies might think I'm being mean but I've lived in Poland and I've actually seen some of this nonsense.

Secondly, you have to be a good chooser. Choose a man, not a kid. Ever heard of the saying, "You get what you pay for?". Well apply that to your man. If you're from Warsaw and you like to hang around Underground on Wednesday night, Tygmont on Fridays, Harlem, or Harenda on Saturday nights then expect to meet a bum who's more than likely out to score. Asking for anything other than a friends with benefits relationship is asking for much. (I've seen the poor choices of some of you Polska girls choosing Africans who claim they're from New York, dressed in 10 different bright colored costumes thinking they were cool with their silvery chains). Psssst......

Most brothas from the U.S. don't ask for much. Show some appreciation, feed him, handle your business in the bedroom, and leave him alone while the game is on and I'm sure you can keep a good brotha if that's what you're looking for.

Love / In love with polish cleaning woman, but don't speak an OUNCE of polish :( [57]

By the way Michael, I'm rooting for you!

Remember, you don't win the lotto unless you play!!!!

Love / How to find a girlfriend in Warsaw? [60]

Through my experiences, Polish women are some of the most approachable women that I've come across. But I realize that good looking women tend to pucker a guy's butthole so here's some good advice.

Normally, I'd advise a guy to get check his sense of fashion. But judging on how most men in Poland dress, I don't think Polish women care too much. Windbreaker pants and sneakers could land you a your dream girl. However, it's all about attention to detail and making yourself feel good. Go to the mall and pick up an outfit. Don't be cheap!!! You'll feel better strutting and looking better than the majority of guys who thinks it's macho and cool to walk around looking like a bag of *ss.

Secondly, go to a gym. Again, not only will you feel better and more confident in your looks, it'll boost your testosterone and sex drive! Throw the Viagra pills in the trash bin and join the local gym!

Last, work on your game. If you don't have the gift of the gab, practice in front of the mirror. The first thing some Polish woman do if they like you is stare in your eyes. If you look twice and they're still staring, quit being shy and say "hello". If you have problems speaking and making eye contact, look at her lips. These are the basics to approaching all women from any country.

Oh yeah, based off my experiences, a walk in the park to a lot of women that I've ran into in Warsaw is like the equivalent of taking an American chic to dinner and a movie.

Love / How to find a girlfriend in Warsaw? [60]


Weronika, by pushy are you implying that the foreign men that you have dated are too aggressive? Too bossy? Too jealous? Or is it that they're not giving you your space? A little more elaboration and clarification on that would help me answer that.

However, (assuming that you date decent looking men) with the high volume of equally attractive women in Poland, I find it hard for any decent looking man to have trouble finding a relationship with an attractive woman without being pushy. Maybe you're just a very friendly woman who guys feel comfortable around?

But my take on it is this: Maybe you're not used to foreign men's mentalities. As an american, by nature, good looks don't scare me or deter me from approaching you. It certainly doesn't deter me from telling you what's on my mind. Again, maybe you're not used to men being aggressive?

Love / HOW CAN POLISH WOMEN KEEP A BLACK MAN? [84]


First of all Randal, I appreciate your opinion but I don't have to agree with it. Please don't assume that your opinion is fact. Let me touch up on ebonics. Ebonics is no more or less a regional or cultural thing, not a racial dialect. Listen to the kids today and you'll hear whites and blacks talking the same slang. Go to New York and they talk different slang than you hear down south. It's no different than Brits having their own slang. Go to Brazil and people in Rio talk a different slang than those up north in Bahia or those in the south of Brazil. That's what my man was referring to. For any black politician or whatever to put a race on it when more than one race is talking the same jibberish, is wrong. It's just as silly as hearing the term "black music".....


Funny to me, everytime I turn on the news there's a black man committing a crime. All of the movies of blacks are the same (Gangster, drug dealer who turned into a rapper, dancing contest/Stomp the Yard, Basketball, or the "This negro really makes me laugh" movies). As if most of us don't live normal lives. I don't blame people like Miranda and yourself (who have no clue about blacks) to have that perception of blacks. It's a 2 way street bro. Only in America do I get treated and boxed into this flawed perception.


I had to laugh at this. OK, Randal. I'm one of the harshest critics of people of my race. However, by your tone it seems that you're implying that it may not be "most" but close to half (lol). True, there're a great many blacks sucking off the system just as there're latinos and whites who do the same. That's a class issue. First of all, most black welfare recipients are single mothers, not brothas. I'm not making excuses for them or the irresponsible men that they choose. But those are your facts bro. Look it up.

For every black kid in the inner city committing crimes I can find you another white kid from the inner city or the trailor parks doing the very same thing. To suggest that blacks are criminally inclined as if that's in our DNA uncovers your naiveness.

Lastly, let me remind you that the majority of those benefitting from public assistance in America are white. However, most do try to be responsible using it. Like you, I know some bums who are duping the system also. But last time I checked, brothas built that White House in D.C. Brothas built many of those buildings you all like to awe over while black women were nursing white kids. So to suggest that we're lazy is absurd. I suggest you get out of your little hole and open that mind of yours. When you do, bring Miranda along with you.