Life / Poland has killed my inner child [105]

Looks like you are depressed and your wife can't solve all your problems. See a doctor first to make sure you are nor clinically depressed. If you are, go on drugs. see if it works. If not, go to England for a while and see if you feel better. If that's the case, work there and move your wife there. If you are still not happy, it's time to stay in Poland and really really work on yourself. I don't think beer and going to clubs and more sex will help in this case. Good luck, either way.

USA, Canada / Friendly Polish in Chicago [17]

I live in Ca, but I heard there are more and more polish social dance groups in Chicago which are fun and the people are firendly. Tha's what I would do if I lived theer: join a social dance group (fox trot, salsa, tango, etc., I don't mean traditional folk dance, although that must be there for sure). It would help if you speak Polish because these groups, I believe are listed in all the Polish denomination Catholic churches in Chicago. Polish church groups are a great place to start, if you're a Catholic, that is. Hope this helps.