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warham   
10 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

Hi my Polish Fiance got a text from this guy at work that I accidentially saw, was about their xmas party... all fine and nothing odd only the last bit of the text he said

see you jutro Piekna as in tomorrow Beautiful.

I think this is an inappropriate way to be addressing a friend, he may have only been joking and I know that My Finace would never address anyone like this who was a male friend, possibly a female friend.

Obviously I cant say that I read this text, this guy is Irish and also has a very good looking polish GF, I asked in a round about way was this guy ok and acted appropriately with her and she said he was ok and had not acted like anything.

I of course trust my GF but she maybe does not seem to think that this is any kind of a big deal, I would never for example say that to a female friend, and Im sure his gf wouldnt think it was cool for him to do so.

He also started being very friendly to me lately when otherwise he was never... my Fiance says he is shy... doesnt sound very shy to my by that text though,

bearing in mind I know she wouldnt say anything like this back should I just leave and know that if anything was to be attempted by him she would kick him in the nuts?

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warham   
10 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

Mobiles usually remain on... was turning the alarm off, yeah I know I should not have read it really... Its no problem from her side anyway,

do you mean she would have deleted it if there was something in it or do you mean ones she would have sent?

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warham   
10 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

Its Ireland... and she has been here for 7 years and never been reckless.... and FU Loco Polaco... the question I asked was whether his way of addressing her was appropriate, we live together for fuck sake... id know well if anything untoward was going on.....
warham   
10 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

Cheers.. yeah I know that from her side which is what my best mate already told me.

He also said that he thought that what that guy said was not cool but sure not to worry, she is trust worthy and there will always be some goon sniffing around.
warham   
10 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

I think your missing the point though,

if Your bf said "see you tomorrow Beautiful" to another girl would you not be pissed off? I'm just thinking that this guy may be a bit of a sly fox, I would'nt say such a thing to someones GF and especially out of respect for my Fiance. she has not done anything.

Or the fact that is was the only 2 polish words in it and he is not fluent she let it slide.

I just maybe think she thinks there is nothing in it when I do maybe,

If the situation were reversed I would not be confortable with a female friend of mine texting me 'gorgeous' or whatever.

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warham   
10 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

Unless you have other suspicions ?

Not at all.. she has never cheated on anyone ever and is very secure in herself...

To be honest I would think that was a slightly innapropriate text message ending to send a colleague. I reckon only VERY close friends would ever warrant that sort of message unless you were trying to get into their pants.

I would leave it for the time being mate and put it off to him showing off his Polish and not really meaning it. Don't let it get you paranoid.

Good advice, I don't think he is a good enough friend for that kind of thing.... female = fine, male friend for YEARS.. maybe ok, but not a 6 month work colleague, she is a clever and trustworthy girl and so I just have to remember that he has no chance anyway.

fu? truth hurts doesn't it bucko. good luck but i bet she'll be leaving you soon enough. she doesn't deserve an untrusting butthole like you. haha

Your the troll flaming someone asking a valid question, fair enough I should not have read it but he also shouldnt be saying stuff like that. Its not like I would ever impede or try to control her, im dealing with issues myself and im certainly not implying SHE did anything wrong... so whatever dude, ;-)

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warham   
10 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

I second that. If he's not fluent in the language, it seems he sure tried to get that "piekna" in there, and has made you paranoid. Did you guys ever hang out with him, or with him & his gf? Maybe if you did, you could see how he acted towards your fiance.

I'd say leave it be for now, and see if she mentions him in conversation later.

I have done and didnt notice anything really, she was at a party in his house without me but his GF was present, also she left the xmas party at 12 and headed to a party where I was and let them go on to the nightclub, nothing screams red flag at all on her part as I said.

If this is addressed to me:

I wouldn't worry at all if 'my boyfriend' was over polite to a girl.

My wife might be a little concerned that I'd turned Gay though. :)

haha.. sorry, I misread the sign... same question but with your WIFE and Gorgeous then :)

Just this guys text and the fact that it doesnt seem to have red flagged anything from her.

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warham   
10 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

Nice :).. cheers dude.... I just think I let what other people do get to me too much and im the one that ends up thinking about it not them, at the end of the day its only what She and I do that matters.

It just annoys me that so many people seem to have no morals these days, I think if people thought more often 'how would I like it if someone did (whatever) how would I like it? We would all be better off.

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warham   
12 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

I talked to her about it and apologised for reading it... She was a bit pissed off about me reading it but it was the right thing to do.

Turns out he says it to ALL the polish girls working there whether they are Piekna or not so thats why she does not think its a big deal, if it was anything else or he was doing anything she considered flirting or trying it on she would nip it in the bud....

When his GF calls him he always says Kochaine or Sexy so Piekna is just the word he uses for all the polish girls in work as a term of endearment.

so lesson is trust your other half to make the right choice... You also have to factor in my Finace's personality and history in which she has never in her life cheated on anyone :)

Instead talking to us about this problem talk to her and don't be afraid that she might get mad at you, that is how bad thing happen it stars with flirting and it goes to touching, kissing and sex

Sorry man, I don't agree with this, no one can make someone cheat, if they love you and want to be with you it shouldnt matter what the hell anyone says to them they should be the one to say no and stop it going further, I can't control anyone and neither can you, if someone wants to cheat they will cheat.

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warham   
15 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

Why am i getting the feeling that warham will return to pf.com sometime in the future and create a thread entitled "polish women are *****", "don't marry polish women", "polish women are golddiggers" etc. ??

Because your an idiot and didn't read my post saying this was all sorted?

Also what kind of a person would write off an entire nation of women based on one experience?

Would seem a bit racist to me,
warham   
30 Dec 2008
Love / Little advice please - another guy called my Polish fiance beautiful. [47]

Well, we've heard it all before on PF and let's just read your posts and see who the actual idiot is?

Go ahead.... this thread is my only posts.

Do a search you idiot! There are plenty of topics where men have been dumped and then slagged of the entire female population of Poland!

Just because there are other people that do it does not mean I would or think that it makes it ok.... so basically you are actually agreeing with me.

Basically you don't know me or my backround or what I would or would not do, so I
would not be as judgemental and assuming is all.