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Speaks Polish?: I am trying so I can speak with Ela easily

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learninPolish   
3 Feb 2008
Love / Polish Women get a lot of love [43]

there are a lot of married men on here or men who have girlfriends. They love to flirt.

I don't know who here is married or have gf's I can only speak for myself and my story. I am a single man in the U.S. I have dated only american women and even married one once in my former "life". A few months back during the summer was a regular day just like the one before. I went to do my laundry and everything changed. I went inside and there she was. Her eyes and smile caught my attention immediately. At that moment I had no idea of her nationality but her demeanor was gentle and I knew immediately truly something special. She is Polish. Only here in the U.S. almost a year, well educated from Poland and unlike any woman I have met in my life. So to sum it up (from my perspective) American women that I have met could learn alot from this and many Polish women on what is important in life and how that life is spent. I am not perfect but I have the ability to know what is perfect for me.(Polish ladies have "it".)
learninPolish   
3 Feb 2008
Love / Polish Women get a lot of love [43]

Polish women have lest feminism in the laundry

HUH??...funny funny stuff/ I had no idea feminism depends on the location

learninPolish, are you still dating her and has the entire outcome been different than with American women? What are the differences?

Well...We have never dated but as each week goes on and the more I learn about her I simply must take the leap and ask her on a date even though at this time she is engaged....(which should make no difference because the vows have not been said yet) From my experience American women view men "as what can you do for me" vs a Polish female who view men as "what quality of man are you?"
learninPolish   
3 Feb 2008
Love / Polish Women get a lot of love [43]

How would you feel

I understand this view...I have had my former wife be unfaithful....but shewolf in matters of the heart we can only go forward with what feels right. How wrong would I be to let such a spectacular woman get away from me? I don't view her as a prize or a possesion but rather an enhancement to the man I am as well as me being an enhancement to the woman she is and both of us despite the difference in nationality I don't see either of us wanting power over the other.
learninPolish   
3 Feb 2008
Love / Polish Women get a lot of love [43]

It's all about you

Whoa ..whoa whoa...this isn't all about me. Of course I care about her life and future goals. This isn't one man wanting to add just any woman to his list of conquests. I'm learning a new language so I can understand her culture and any relatives I may meet in the future.
learninPolish   
3 Feb 2008
Love / Polish Women get a lot of love [43]

Yes..she is engaged to a Polish guy and this is the second time in 12 months they have been engaged...she ended it this past August...he tried again in Dec. (with the same ring?..starting anew deserves a new ring...yes?)...Even her friends know it won't last but they don't say anything as will I not
learninPolish   
3 Feb 2008
Love / Polish Women get a lot of love [43]

this is a wise choice, to just hang in there and wait and see what happens

Thank you shewolf...you do understand..I would also bet that if you were in the same room as her and I you could feel the heavy vibrations of both myself and her delighting in knowing each other.