Love / Polish Girlfriend obsessive and not trusting [59]

Hi all my first post here so go easy on me im dyslexic as well so sorey any bad grammer or spelling.

Im english around 24 now had my girlfriend who polish for one year half i been to her village were she lives poland twice south krakow and going again soon.

I love her to bits she really sweet nice personality as well as really good looking much better then any english girl i had befor. She is younger me now 20.

But lately we had lot arguments reason is she is so obsessive she wants me do everything with her go everywere with her. Im not allowed out with other girls on my own or clubing or with friends. If i go shoping or she go shoping we got go with each other not seprate or apart. I got 7 polish friends in england moment and more in poland now and when i ask they seem say it's polish culture and all polish women like this when married etc. Some them even fought omfg when my mum went out to restaraunt with friends on her own with out my dad and said what she doing thats not allowed she should be with your dad.

I was like what ??? you not allowed enjoy going out yourself on own when married or something in poland.

I know polish culture can be differnt depending which area poland you from like when i learn polish some words totaly differnt in other parts poland and i talk polish to friend north she not understand some words i say i don't understand some she says.

I was just woundering is this like the norm is polish girls very obsessive there boyfriend husband all time ringing them everyday checking up on them wanting go everywere with them not giveing them much space go out enjoy themself on there own.

She wants me move in with her now and even talking about babies and stuff and which country live in or how long we stay work england. I know she loves me very much and i lover her loads but it's almost like i got stalker sometimes not girlfriend.

Can anyone give me advice on your culture in marriage and when going out whats exspected of the boy. Just becuse if i hear one more time thats not how polish boy would do it hang myself or thats not what your suppose do you should bring me flowers after argument each time.

Just anoying and if i say her your treating me like slave not boyfriend she say oh you english you don't know how treat girl you should do everything for me. so what all polish boys are like slaves and arnt allowed enjoy them selfs and do everything for girl??

I don't know i really need help subject. It's not big relgion thing she may be catholic and im church of england but my dad catholic and thats fine and church england simlar to catholic anyway just broke way years go when had argument history etc.

Im just getting ****ed of iffer men are like slaves in poland to women and women rule the roost in every house and polish men very week to them? or is my girlfriend like taken the **** but how much whats the rules i don't know help please.

we both liveing and working england moment she has friends and familey in england working as well. I have polish friends i worked with befor i even seen her and learnt some polish befor i was with her.

oh and she dosent like me drinking hmmm helpppppppp