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My 3 weeks in Poland.... I didn't want to leave. [33]
AP - Poland did the same thing for me in 2003. I couldn't believe how refreshing the society was, especially when compared to the general neurosis common to my home country (USA).
A couple of years later, I had my first experience dating a Polish woman - she absolutely knocked me off my feet! Our relationship lasted only a few months, but after experiencing life with Karolina, I eventually found I could no longer be happy dating American women. Yes, the inherent beauty of Poles was a factor; however, I found the occasionally-brutal honesty to be their best quality by far. Also, they seemed to view sex as natural and beautiful, not a bloody quest for the holy grail (as it seems in MY country!!!).
As many others have stated in this thread, dating a Polish woman is not without its complications. But with Karolina, I found MY reactions to relationship issues to be the biggest obstacles. Since then, I have grown more and more comfortable with the differences each time I have dated a Pole. Finally, I met the right woman here in Krakow - we have been together for almost 9 months now and are very happy together. I am so much more relaxed today than I was in 2005 - however, my American "indoctrination" does rear its ugly head from time to time. Fortunately, my partner understands this and is quite patient with me.
You seem to be bitten by the same bug I was in 2003! Forget the negative comments - sure, there likely will be tough times ahead if you pursue this dream, but not all Polish women are cold-hearted and vindictive as inferred in this thread. I found one who is warm, patient, NOT interested in my money, and NOT the least bit jealous. I am living my dream here - I am sure you can as well.