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PolskaDoll   
18 Jan 2008
USA, Canada / Cleveland couple and expired visa [15]

They knew they were here illegally and that one day they will have to go back. They were given several choices and opportunities to stay but they did not file the documents

That is true of course. Perhaps they thought it would be okay because they pay taxes and things, who knows. While the laws say they should be deported, there was also a case for them not to be. The children should perhaps have been considered.

Anyway, as you say, they should have filed the paperwork themselves and saved all this trouble.

Why did they choose not to file the paper work? Laziness? Or is there some kind of "benefit" in not doing this?
PolskaDoll   
18 Jan 2008
USA, Canada / Cleveland couple and expired visa [15]

It's not like they're going to prison or to hell, they will just have to do some adjustments in their lives.

Absolutely this is true. In a few months they may feel that it's the best move they ever had to make. Who knows?

I do agree with Patrycja though, it makes no sense that a government would uproot a family who appear to be good community members and have good lives and contribute. (It happens here in the UK too). It's almost like the government feels like they must be seen as taking a tough stance on illegals but they pick the wrong people.

I agree that this really sucks, but on the other hand you just can't say that you will kick out all the illegals from Latin countries and let illegal White Europeans stay

I think if the story had been about a Polish guy who was illegal and was robbing stores and old people no one would complain about his deportation, it's more the fact that it was a young family.
PolskaDoll   
17 Jan 2008
USA, Canada / Cleveland couple and expired visa [15]

I found this Kucinich Fights To Save Parents From Deportation but it's from less than a month after your article. I can't find anything since. It's an interesting story. Sad too. Many would say that they have committed something illegal, which is true, but surely there are others who should be deported before them.
PolskaDoll   
14 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / Many British have inferiority complex [131]

It's better than seeing these arrogant Brits that come in here just to slag PL ppl off because they were let down by a PL woman or can't compete for work.

Being British and generally proud of my country these ones you talk about really let the country down. They talk about British pride but they don't believe in it (or they don't truly know what it is).

Not to defend "trolls" (how could I? :) but the UK is a tiny country that's seen a massive influx of people (not just Polish) over the last two or so years. Some people embrace new cultures and see it as a chance to learn, to meet new people, others choose to take the opportunity to blame everything that is wrong in their lives on these "foreigners". So these are the Brits with inferiority complexes really, the ones who try to say Polish people are below them are really feeling that they are below the Polish people.
PolskaDoll   
13 Jan 2008
Travel / Donkey visits Poland [76]

Another good read Osiol :)

Available in all good bookshops, price £19.99 in hardback.

If you go to WH Smith you'll get it for half price ;)
PolskaDoll   
12 Jan 2008
Life / Local Poles taking advantage of foreigners living in Poland [235]

Why do people who live in Amewrica always have to start a line with "here in the US" or " here in the STATES" just curious?

Mostly because that is where they are, I would guess. Probably also it helps the reader figure out where the opinion is coming from...and I have seen, and have used, "here in the UK" and seen "here in Poland".
PolskaDoll   
11 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's it really like being a Polish worker in the UK? [25]

The star of the show in my Visit to Poland thread didn't learn much English, just enough for him to be able to talk talk talk talk talk. I remember a thread started by Admin where he says that Poles like to talk. Lots of people like to talk, but I have met some very good talkers even if they're not such great speakers.

It's surreal how much he talks actually. When you talk to him he's listening but you can tell he's just itching to start talking again. I know the thread you mean about talking and I've just re-read it (well the original article).

He knows plenty of spoken English, it's his written English that lets him down and he knows it. It's part of the reason he won't go to college yet.
PolskaDoll   
11 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's it really like being a Polish worker in the UK? [25]

Maybe it's something that just takes time.

Yes. I think I might have implied that he was being ignored. That's not the case. I meant that he sees an effort being made to make sure he's not ignored but at the end of the day, the British guys tend to group back together and chat and joke. That's natural I suppose and he's not the only Polish guy in his workplace.

This is just one guys experience though.

That is the kind of thing that helps.

It should. At first I thought he just like to chat a lot in English to improve his English. Then I realised he talked just as much in Polish...
PolskaDoll   
11 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's it really like being a Polish worker in the UK? [25]

Grrr! It's not even the girl at work who he fancies!

Hmm, so is it the girl at work who YOU fancy? :)

PD, is this a large place where it is easy for co-workers to ignore eachother? I work in quite a small place and it is rare for anyone not to say good morning to anyone.

His new place is smaller. I kind of feel he sees the other males being all "blokey" and he's not a part of that. I think it's more that than being ignored. You can't ignore him, he'll talk to you anyway...
PolskaDoll   
11 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's it really like being a Polish worker in the UK? [25]

I kind of took Osiol's approach here and "asked a friend" earlier on about these questions.

So here goes...

What makes life in the UK better or worse than life back home?
Do you see your stay as temporary ? eg. To stay for a couple of years to make enough money to buy a flat back home?
Or are you keen to stay in the UK and make a life here?

Currently life is not better and not worse than Poland just different but of course here, there is no family. Apparently this was first seen as a good thing (freedom) but now family is missed, especially a young nephew. However, new friends have been made, mostly within the Polish community though.

Originally the move to UK was seen as temporary with a view to just making some money and heading home to Poland to start again. Now though, there is thoughts of remaining here. This will depend on how the next year goes (apparently). So probably "dunno" would have done here as well...

Are you treated the same at work as your British colleagues?
Do you feel integrated into the wider workforce, or marginalised?
Are your skills and qualifications recognised and utilised by your employer?
How would you describe your experience of working in the UK?

My friend felt that he was overall NOT treated the same at work as British colleagues but that only one or two actually went out of their way to involve him in worktime chit-chat or after work socialising. That was one job though and he's since left. In his new job he feels more integrated but still notices the difference in the way British staff are treated.

His skills and qualifications are not recognised by his employer. (Unless you count his people skills - he'll talk to anyone :)

All in all, he reckons his experience of working in the UK is not what he thought it was going to be, it's been hard working two jobs but he understands that's what he must do to make money.

The Polish newspapers say most Poles will come back from the UK soon - if the GBP drops another few percent because then it won't pay to work in the UK anymore.

Then the Brits will mass migrate to Poland :)
PolskaDoll   
10 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's So Great About The UK? [416]

Can you elaborate on post? Or does slagging off something you know nothing about make you sound good?

lol no. "Slagging off". So saying that waiting times and cancellations are a problem means dissing the NHS, so be it! I know much about the NHS, seeing as every day I work within it and with it. Actually, I work with a group that tries to forward the NHS (and also what needs forwarded in the private sector). My group highlights what works and what doesn't. So any suggestions are greatly taken...

I should add that my group works within one specific area but nonetheless...

Also a fact is, the Poles have nothing to do with a declining NHS.
PolskaDoll   
10 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's So Great About The UK? [416]

Grimsby ?

Gorgeous as Grimsby?

Something that's good about the UK? Humour, how we can take the crap out of ourselves... :)
PolskaDoll   
10 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's So Great About The UK? [416]

I am 23 years of age and have been in glasgow my whle life, how long you been here

That says it all really. 23 years and never even left Glasgow. Maybe if you left and saw a bit more of the world (or even Britain) you'd have a less secluded attitude.

were born in one of englands most beautiful cities

har de har :)
PolskaDoll   
10 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's So Great About The UK? [416]

Tosser,I was born in Simpson memorial....spiting distance from the royal mile....

So was I, but it's not there now :( it's moved out of town to Little France
PolskaDoll   
9 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's So Great About The UK? [416]

the nhs was in a crisis even before the polish wave as you say yourself, but still there are people on here who paint a picture that the nhs would work fine if there were no poles in the uk...

Good point. The NHS has been in downfall for at least a decade (probably more) cancelled operations and waiting times (for example) have been a problem for a long time and nothing to do with Polish people. It's an old story.
PolskaDoll   
5 Jan 2008
Life / Polish Birthday Traditions [42]

So what might the message be inside a Name Day Card?

And if anyone does know where to buy them in Scotland, please pass that information on :)
PolskaDoll   
5 Jan 2008
Life / Polish Birthday Traditions [42]

Ah vinyl, sometimes just as good :)

in scotland can i buy polish name day cards?

Interesting question. Can you actually buy Name Day Cards?
PolskaDoll   
5 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's So Great About The UK? [416]

England represented a fascination for Poles

Just England then? Funny that, I thought I'd bumped into a few Poles in Scotland...must have been mistaken...

The point (of this thread) is, what do foreigners see in the UK? I know that I sometimes wonder what anyone thinks is so wonderful about the UK (especially when I see the tax deducted on my wage slip). It would be interesting to find out...
PolskaDoll   
5 Jan 2008
Life / Polish Birthday Traditions [42]

I remember my 16th in Poland. It was " a coming of age" year. The Beatles played...

At your party? Lucky you... :p

21, don't really remember anything special.

21 is a key birthday here usually celebrated with a big party. 30 didn't used to be but is now.

PD, you are just a baby, still! OK, let's say - a babe.

Thanks Eurola :)

Generally age doesn't bother me, I joke about it. :)
PolskaDoll   
5 Jan 2008
Language / "sorry" instead of "przepraszam" [76]

i just want to say that sometimes i heard people says "sorry" instead of "przypraszam"

Yes you will have. I asked a friend of mine about English words moving into the Polish language. She said that it was true. Words like "sorry" are creeping into the language. However, languages often do cross, especially where cultures cross. :)
PolskaDoll   
4 Jan 2008
Life / Polish art pictures [55]

yes, he's Polish

Excellent! Thanks PGT, I'll take a look :)

I'm glad I asked about Yerka now! So many great pictures and I haven't even looked at them all yet :)
PolskaDoll   
4 Jan 2008
Life / Polish art pictures [55]

Hey :)

These two pictures have the name "Yerka" with them. Can anyone tell me if this is a Polish artist or not? The two descriptions are the titles that are with the pictures. I like this style of art so I was looking for more about the artist.

Thanks PD :)


  • New Age Manhatten

  • It's Calm in the Block
PolskaDoll   
4 Jan 2008
Life / Polish Birthday Traditions [42]

As for importance those are most celebrated
16, 18, 21, 40, 50, 80, 90, 91, 92, 93

Interesting that 30 doesn't come into this. I'm not sure when it became such a "big" birthday here either.
PolskaDoll   
4 Jan 2008
Life / Polish Birthday Traditions [42]

im dreading someone organising mine to be truthful ...

Yes me to, which is why I worry if I don't make a decision whether I'm doing something, they'll organise something anyway and it'll be a "surprise" which I wouldn't want. Plus, I'd rather my celebrations had my own these, as detailed above.

poland

I have thought briefly about asking a few friends if they'd go to Poland with me for my birthday but it's just before Christmas and a lot to ask...
PolskaDoll   
4 Jan 2008
Life / Polish Birthday Traditions [42]

Yeah pretty much everyone is younger than me :| hehe

It's part of the reason I actually started this thread. My friends are bugging me (already) about having a party. I "can't not have one" apparently. The thing is, I'm not keen on a big party but would maybe go for a gathering and I had wondered if there was some particular Polish tradition about ages that I could have blended into my celebrations...not that I truly want to think about them for a while ;)
PolskaDoll   
4 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's So Great About The UK? [416]

Hopefully some other people will be able to give you their input as well, but in them meantime, I can tell you that the Polish people I know are financially in better positions than my English friends.

I did ;)

I agree with you that some of the Polish people I know are better off financially. They do work hard for it though. Some of my non-Polish friends would faint at the thought of a second job ;)

Yes I agree with you and as we know the problems you have highlighted are being faced by most of the younger generation nowadays, ie getting on the property ladder.

Easier as a couple both earning to get a mortgage so Polish couples (any couples really) will be able to do this easier than single people.
PolskaDoll   
4 Jan 2008
UK, Ireland / What's So Great About The UK? [416]

This is a subject that my Polish friends and I talk about now and then.

I wanted an idea of what Polish and other Eastern Europeans think on all this and why they want to work for the minimum wage and hardly see their parents.

My Polish friends came here for a better life and it is their opinion that they have a better life now. They say they have much better earning potential and can make something of themselves here, which they don't believe they could do at home in Poland.

Some of my Polish friends say that they came here for a better life too. They generally work in jobs with a higher level of pay than minimum wage and they are mostly happy with the lives they have here. They say that it's also an opportunity to visit another country and to explore it. Mostly it's because they want a better life.

As for missing parents and other family members, they do but as Starchild says, they are away from them so there is a sense of freedom. Being in the UK, Poland is only a couple of hours away, flights are cheap so holidays can be spent in Poland.

Most of my Polish friends currently feel that things are good enough at the moment they would most likely remain here rather than move back to Poland and are looking at buying properties in the next couple of years.

but I don't get how you all make ends meet ?

Generally by working two jobs, many hours in each. As the saying goes "needs must" and I don't hear my Polish friends complain too much about working lots. It was their decision to come and they know this. At the end of the day hopefully it will all pay off. (As we all hope).
PolskaDoll   
30 Dec 2007
Feedback / Why are some requests for translation shoved into the random chat thread? [42]

Why are some requests for translation shoved into the random chat thread?

For Moderators it's frustrating to arrive here and find maybe 3 or 4 requests for translations that have titles like "urgent translation" or "sms to Polish". This doesn't happen once in a while, it happens every day. So then time has to be spent on re-naming these threads (this is fine as it's part of the job but you can imagine how it becomes frustrating). Then after that move on to other Moderating jobs, plus try to participate in PF of course ;)

These titles are not often all the doing of new members either.

To not moderate these would leave a list of thread titles in the translation section that are of no use to anyone. It's also worthy to remember that the people who translate all the requests and help with grammar and pronunciation do so out of the goodness of their hearts.

I don't know why this lady was moved,

It's worth noting that the user who posted this message wrote this "If you cant text well in english then text in polish instead.". So the user was welcoming someone to text them in Polish but didn't seem to know how to speak Polish or write Polish. So how were they going to understand those texts when they started arriving?

PF is moderated by humans, not robots so it can't be perfect all the time.

I disagree with Admin on moving first posters to a random chat thread before they know the ins and outs of PF.

Then it must be worth it to spend some time looking around the forum before making that first post. Personally I was hovering for days before I joined ;)