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Looking for some direction regarding Polish men in Australia


Zengirl  
14 Nov 2006 /  #1
Are all Polish men shy? Having met some recently, and being interested in one in particular, I am fascinated to know more about their dating rituals/practices. For example, as a general rule would Polish men find Australian women too 'out there'? Because most Australian women are very confident and are accustomed to doing what they want, when they feel like it. Is this something that Polish men would find attractive or a 'turn off'?

I realise that this is all very subjective and too broad to really give a definitive answer - just looking for some direction or a bit of advice
krysia 23 | 3,057  
14 Nov 2006 /  #2
Yes, Polish guys are shy.
They respect the woman more and appreciate what she does. In the US, women want to be equal to men, they don't like when a guy opens a door for them,etc., they are feminists, and American guys treat them with less respect than Polish guys.

These are just my observations. I'm sure there will be other opinions.
Just got done going through a very nasty divorce, American Court systems give equal rights to men, who could care less about children, but don't want to pay child support. In Poland they will give the mother the children, and Polish men respect the women more, therefore, that makes them more shy around them.
OP Zengirl  
14 Nov 2006 /  #3
Ok, so aving read some of the other posts that have been written it is fairly clear to me that Polish men are shy.... which kind of leads me to my next question which is..

Given that they are shy, I can only gather that they are not sexually aggressive creatures, so in terms of their habits/conduct sexually in Poland, are men accustomed to having a number of partners before marriage (as in Australia) or are they fairly traditional about 'sex'?
Matyjasz 2 | 1,544  
14 Nov 2006 /  #4
Given that they are shy, I can only gather that they are not sexually aggressive creatures, so in terms of their habits/conduct sexually in Poland, are men accustomed to having a number of partners before marriage (as in Australia) or are they fairly traditional about 'sex'?

Polish women like their men to have experience in this field. Polish men like to impress their women with experience in this field. In Poland sex with a male virgin isn’t a turn on for women, nor it isn’t something that you could be particular proud of and show off with among your friends and colleagues. I hope that this answer will satisfy you. :)

Ok, so aving read some of the other posts that have been written it is fairly clear to me that Polish men are shy....

I would be more careful with making this kind of deductions. You see women that don't have any problems with their polish boyfriends simply don't spend their time searching for help and advice on the internet, but spend it on having some quality time with them. Thus women with some partner problems are more visible than those without them.(without those problems, not polish boyfriends :) )

Pozdrawiam. :)
OP Zengirl  
14 Nov 2006 /  #5
Yes Matyjasz, that does answer my question, thanks! I have never logged onto anything like this before but have found it necessary this time because of, what I think is, the huge cultural differences b/w myself and this Polish guy - and having no real idea of what is going on.

Because his English skills are not great it is quite hard for us to communicate at times. And being naturally inquisitive and a huge communicator, I find it tough that we cannot speak as easily as I would like.

And the sex thing is just curiosity on my part. I can't help but want to know what sexual/gender relations are like in Poland and if they differ greatly to Australia. We are much freer about sex here and I having lived overseas I noticed that (obviously) each country has its own rules.

Are Polish men usually trustworthy....?!
zebrarose 1 | 2  
3 Oct 2007 /  #6
How did it go with this Polish guy you fancied?
Zacha  
11 Aug 2009 /  #7
I was wondering the same thing...

Zacha

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