Well, you're just siding with the woman a little arbitrarily actually
WTF says you. read a little better, as logic has it another male who still dont get it!!
you even quoted it... I put out suggestions, I didnt tell him he had to go, there are
Let me get this straight, you think it's a good idea to leave (right now) a good paying job , uproot the kid, move to Poland to start a brand new life... soley because SHE wants too?? You've introduced no other rationale than that.
yes I did, you didnt read it carefully, I said take her out, help her get a job etc etc
but you only read part of the post.
That's female 'logic'.
I call it 'me-ism'...... and it's sadly promoted by media and law.
zimmy, if you had one caring bone in your body, you wouldnt be divorced. I see
where your heading on this thread. leave the guy alone, dont corrupt his mind
with your pig ideas.
Often when a woman sees the odds stack against her - child abuse allegations (by the man) mysteriously appear. My neighbor's brother went through hell when his then wife wanted a divorce and full custody. When he wouldn't give her what she wanted all of a sudden all kinds of stories appeared about his "inappropriate behavior" toward
stop!! this is not a divorce. or that type of divorce. hes asking for help/advice
about her home sickness. for all we know she is a wonderful person just home sick
and he seems like a good man too, this is just a sad situation and yes, the child is
the most important.. no they might not be able to make the choice of who they want
to be with, but both parents have to get along and agree in order for this child to
understand the situation and if she did go back with the child, she would miss her
father, and vice versa..
In several fairly recent cases it looked to me the "child's best interest" basically meant the woman's best interest. "
thats not what I meant, you obviously didnt read either. or misunderstood my
post.. yeah thats it.
just realism vs. romanticism.
I hear your point, but you totally missed mine, and I am pretty disappointed that
so many did.. I know its not easy to uproot, move , and especially now, but thats
something they could talk about or maybe already have.
I know, you believe that bullsh.t? She actually typed that out ..and submitted it. What has the American marriage come to.. It's like something out of Dickens.
are you talking to me scrappy? cause I would really like to know WTF your so uppity about!!