you are removing yourself/Poland from the equation...talking about the EU as something far removed...ruled by "Marsians"..
No, I'm just stating the obvious. In EU rule the one with the biggest pull, economy and so on ...i.e. Germany. Do you really expect Poland to step up and change anything that has been planed a way before Poland joined the ?EU?
See you are one of those who talks a lot about this or that while talking about Poland and EU. Somehow you forget to mention facts, numbers and statics. Which is strange considering you love to quote those anytime you can.
In my view you would be much more difficult to do anything while remaining in the EU than outside it.
Hell, the uk a second economy of the union couldn't do it - change the grant plan. they had no disadvantage of no elites and 50 years of Soviet occupation, but you talking Poland to do it? Are you pulling my leg>?