After all I'm giving you MONEY.
It's not only money, Iron.
With your example it would be more like an invitation into a house...an old house, already filled with families. The oldest families in there did even build this house together, they agreed to common house rules, so that this house stays sturdy and well maintained.
Many years later they offer outsiders an apartement in this house, bevor though they talk about these house rules and the newcomer agree, they will follow the rules.
So all agree the newcomer can come, and so this new family get's an apartement in this house. The other families even spend money so that their apartement get's soon furnished and renovated and all that.
In the meantime the new family has access to all the modern WC, to the stuffed refrigerator, to the nice garden and what not...all are happy...but then, after a few years...one of the new family heads get's stinky...he doesn't like these house rules anymore...he even starts to resent the old families for these rules they made so many years back...he says he feels oppressed by them....and anyhow, he doesn't likes this house anymore, he wants it changed...