"anything goes"!
It does anyway, so why obsess. Some men have a wife and a mistress, some men have a husband. Some men moulder away wishing they'd had more fun, some defected to the Eastern Bloc and faithfully serve the regime but afterwards pretend they didn't.
What matters is much more important - and that is underpinned by the basic; living in a decent country where the rule of law is observed rather than a hysterical dictatorship.
Which is why people are so keen to defend democracy here in Poland, and shrug off those pond-dwellers who are one third catholic, one third fascist and one third (failed) craven opportunists serving a totalitarian regime.