Their long-suffering pathos is repulsive to me...
I care little about their long suffering pathos as iong as they keep it to themselves, don't wreck the lives of people close to me, don't invade the country adjacent to the one I live in, don't carry out chemical weapons attacks in the country I'm from, don't try to influence the results of elections in favour of the far right, don't try to undermine the values of democracy and freedom which are fragile enough, and don't keep threatening to nuke people.
The saddest thing I've ever seen was about 3 years ago when I doing some work for a while in Libya and had to visit Benghazi. They (Wagner Group) had destroyed the whole downtown area, several blocks. Not a pane of glass or even a window frame left in the big apartment blocks. Big piles of rubble and twisted concrete and metal blocking the streets. And a few, but only a few mostly older people there, sitting alone in the ruins rocking back and forth. It looked truly post-apocalyptic, like something from a horror film.
I took some photos (it was a shocking thing to see) which I'd planned to put on social media but never could in the end since it would just have been voyeurism.