and they testified that they could hear the baby screaming inside them (not even close to possible).
It is possible that the intense emotion they felt, felt like that.
She also told us that an abortion is done by medication which melts the baby or by something like a wire coat hanger
Not far off. I have never really looked into it, but enough to understand that 12 weeks and under, surgical abortion, they inject Pygmy poison into the woman's stomach to open the cervix, then use a hook to rupture the pregnancy and then they suction everything out.
At later stages, babies are 'born' alive, and are killed once out. There is a practice of surgical scissors being used to mash the baby's skull and make it easier to get out. Honestly, I am not making this up. That nun wasn't so far off. Look it up, if you have the heart for it. I have never got past a couple of not-nice photos and the scissors fact. Didn't want to know more.
I'd assume that a woman who had a baby she didn't want would put her child up for adoption.
Don't assume that. The woman might not want to go through pregnancy to full term, delivery baby, hold and love for a second, then have it ripped away from her. Seems an easier option never to see the baby.
but honestly I really don't.
Which is fine, but as your whole point is how we should respect the individual woman's experience, not sure how you think it OK to make statements such as
If any women are reading this, who think they can magically "tune in" to their body, they'd be wrong.
Is that not you telling other women how they should - nay, can only - think and feel, based on your own, individual experience? Mine is different to yours. We might share the same sex, but we are very different. I am tuned to my body's reactions and what is going on. I swim every morning, and I can measure by my energy, mood and even how cold or otherwise the water feels, what stage I am at in the month. That is my experience. You can't tell me I am wrong. It's like me telling you you might think you speak English but in fact you speak Chinese. It is nonsense.
I am not lucky in this sensitivity - I just listen!
Most of the women who abort have just been plain unlucky.
You have sex. You might get pregnant. You get pregnant. That is not unlucky. Unlucky is a bucket of concrete falls off some scaffolding on your head. Unlucky is you don't smoke and you get lung cancer. It is not that you have sex and you get pregnant.