Are Polish Women cold and aloof?

Polish women are really nice. They look cold and angry but when you need something, you are going and ask ''Excuse me'' and mostly all of them are similing and trying to help. But real deal is polish men. Omg no! They are so so so so rude. Tip to tourist: If you have to ask something, ask to women. Dont ask to Polish men. Polish Women better than Men in Poland. More polite, more nice.

no we just bossy af

It depends. I've noticed that Polish women tend to be rather gloomy in relationships and love to play bogus mind games. Example: I called my gf asking what she wants from the store. She asks what storeo I reply: Jewel. She sighs and says she doesnt want anything. I reply well what are you going to eat - you haven't eaten all day. She says that's okay. I keep asking her - please tell me what you want if not I can get some food to go from somewhere else that's close by like gyros, pizza, Italian beef, whatever you want baby. She says, well get some milk from the store (what we needed anyway). Well what else? Nothing it's okay. I already know that she wanted me to go some this other grocery store named Marianos and do the shopping there. I explain Marianos is really far and I have to meet with clients at night plus I went to Jewel because my bank was on the way. She says well its okay I'm not that hungry. Eventually I relent, go to Marianos, and then call her back and she starts arguing that I took too long, why'd I have to stop at the bank, why didn't I just go direct to marianos, etc etc.

This isn't just my experience, but also my friends' and even married couples who have been together for 10, 20, 30+ years.

Polish girls are beautiful, tend to be very moral, excellent fashion sense, like to have fun, are well educated, very feminine, very friendly in public, very hospitable, but they loooove to play mind games with their men and often act depressed and passive to get something they want but they'll make you find out what it is instead of just saying it out loud. A lot of women do that but with Polish girls it seems more common and more to an extreme.

Im from at another country. I came to Poland 4-5 times. I love Poland, I love Krakow. Sometimes I need to ask something ''How can I go to city center, Which train should I choose'' Im asking this questions to ladies. I asked to men couple times but not anymore :D You guys are weird, looking so cold.

And they are complaining about Polish women dating with foreigners! What do you expect!! Im sorry but you guys are awful to your own ladies, you dont know how to treat(act) your women. So when they see another men acting polite, nice(whatever) they are dating with them. How do I know? Ermmm :)

You're right, Sparks11. Guess they didn't want to talk to you either:-)

@DoggyDogg
One's personality doesn't depend on their sex. Women usually seem gentler because of their looks. Polish guys are not that bad either when you get to know them better.

@Sparks11
Spot on.

@DoggyDogg
A good portion of polish women that date foreign men are more interested in dating an 'exotic' guy or in the guys 10k zl plus it salary than the guy. Don't believe me? Propose and see the answer. Most end up marrying polish men though one for sheer demographic reasons as there's far more polish men and women than foreign and second when they decide to settle down they want to pass on the culture and such. Also the family has a bit more influence on a young couple in Poland than in many western countries. Outside of Poland its different there's many married to non poles but they tend to stick to white males nonetheless. Go ahead and keep being all nice. Everyone knows the nice guy gets screwed in the long run.

If they are then I was very lucky. I just got out of a relationship with a Polish girl that didnt work because of the distance, and she was the sweetest and happiest girl ever. To be honest if I ever find another girlfriend I hope is polish.

@DoggyDogg

That's not my experience. Female waitresses and barladies here as well as train station or Poczta Polska workers, aged anywhere from 18-40 something, were usually very abrupt and rude to me. On the contrary a male bartender, waiter, restaurant worker, whatever was always informative and friendly.

The women are often up their own hole because they are told their whole lives that Polish women are 'the best'-actually their ego is often much worse than Irish women or any other women for that matter.