just thought, a problem that sometimes strikes me is, how to girls/women on this forum, depict the weird, stalkerish, puppy sort a guys from the normal ones.
The whole 'Polish Personals' section weirds me out! The world is full of people, why seek them out online? But then, you always hear these stories how people met, fell in love, got married, and it turns out one of them is a serial killer. I haven't been in that situation myself, but I imagine there would be signs. Some people will see what they want to see, and this is whether they met online or anywhere else.
I can only claim to be normal i guess as i cannot prove it myself and it could only be resovled by others statements. I'm just interested, for example, if i pm a girl/woman on the forum, sometimes i think, 'hm whats she going to think' and its because of some of the weird types on here that make me think that.
Although, sometimes its easy to spot a psycho on here because of their writing styles. They feel comfortable enough to be themselves because no one knows them. The flip side to that is that it can be easier to disguise your personality because you're not showing facial expressions, body language etc..
Mali, it's funny, i'm sure there is many beautiful girls, i don't feel proud or anything else and i don't think i will stay with nothing if nobody say something pleasant about me... we joke here, as you see... and what "power" are you talking about?
You're young still, and probably like all the 'attention' from the men here, which is fine, but you should definitely be careful about it. The 'power' I refer to is this idea that women feel like they're controlling the situation because the men are specifically looking at them; you control their gaze. However, once the gaze moves onto the next woman, you have lost the sense of 'power'. You can never be fully confident in yourself when you depend on the attention that men give you due to your looks.
I have nothing personal against you, panienka.
Be proud chick. Make the most of it. Show the world! In 20 years time we'll all be old gits!
Panienka is a beautiful girl, no doubt about it. Nothing wrong with being beautiful and making the best of it. It can become a problem (especially for women) when they depend on it.