Nigel... i have to agree with you.
i have a problem trusting a Polish girl as a girlfriend.
I've been with a 3 in the last year that have long term BF's that they live with, fiances out of the country and have been having fun with me. They never told me about their status until after we..... you know.
I had a 4 month online relationship with a Polish girl in 2006, and then came to visit her. I was a bit suspicious about her actions so I created another fake online account from the same website and started flirting with her. She invited the fake acct to visit her a week after I returned, and said we could do all the things I just did with her. We were even talking about marriage. Good thing i tested the water.
I recently found out my last GF of 3 months was sleeping with her ex, when she went back home to her hometown on the weekends but yet never told me about it. I ended it.
sure good looks are a part of the package.... but a good wrapping does not equate a good present.
so what if a woman cant cook?. let the man do it! Personally I like cooking, but there are plenty of women who dont.. and why should they?
/\ AMERICAN ATTITUDE NO DOUBT!!
WTF?? I've cooked a ratio of about 15:1 meals vs my girlfriends in Poland. A woman who can't cook is about as useless as a 1 legged waitress at IHOP. Seriously, how hard is cooking?
I love cooking myself.... but one thing i absolutely HATE is doing all the dishes afterwards, while "princess" sits on her butt watching tv. Never even asking if i want help or taking initiative. If I leave the dishes, they don't get done. That is effed.
women are not there just to cook your dinner, do your laundry, clean the house and s**g you.
Well..... in a relationship where 2 ppl live together, there should be a balance of the work to be done. When it comes to shagging, it seems like I am the one contributing 90% to the deed, while all i get is 10% back.
I'm perfectly happy living alone and would be happy to remain living alone if I had to be with a shrew with an attitude like yours.