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Woman 28 single, too late for a relationship with a Polish man?


English Dougie
9 Jun 2016 #31
Once they're 28 plus they are ideal for pumping and dumping. It's all good for me and my buddies.
Lyzko 30 | 7,494
9 Jun 2016 #32
Maybe they're good for "pumping", ol' bean, but with that kind of attitude, YOU'RE the one they ought to be dumping:-)

lol
Dreamergirl 4 | 273
9 Jun 2016 #33
I like younger polish men anyway full of energy and stamina
Lyzko 30 | 7,494
9 Jun 2016 #34
Just like fine wine, only the more maturely aged....the BETTER:-)
Kezcaisim 1 | 37
9 Jun 2016 #35
Women after the age of 24 lack a certain kind of glow that only young women have. Personally I believe that a 28-year-old woman who isn't married or at least engaged has taken lots of wrong decisions. I'm 28 and I'm dating a youthful, smart and kind 19-year-old. I'd never go out with a girl who is over the age of 24.
TheOther 5 | 3,682
9 Jun 2016 #36
I'd never go out with a girl who is over the age of 24.

What will you do when your girlfriend celebrates her 25th birthday? For most teenage girls, you are already a grandpa who's almost dead. ;)
Kezcaisim 1 | 37
10 Jun 2016 #37
I don't know. I will be dating another girl by that time.

"For most teenage girls, you are already a grandpa who's almost dead. ;)

That's exactly why they all swoon over Jared Leto, who is 44.
TheOther 5 | 3,682
10 Jun 2016 #38
That's exactly why they all swoon over Jared Leto, who is 44.

Nah. The vast majority of teenage girls do not appreciate creepy 44 year old dudes with too much hair.

I will be dating another girl by that time.

If you can find one who is willing to date an old fart... :)
Lyzko 30 | 7,494
10 Jun 2016 #39
Correction, TheOther! "Creepy 44 year-olds....with not enough MONEY!!!!"
:-)
Let's not kid one another.
Pearhead
10 Jun 2016 #40
Well, if you're 28 and still single, you're doing at least one thing right. The question that's burning on my lips is: Why give up now? (Next!)
TheOther 5 | 3,682
10 Jun 2016 #41
@Lyzko
Yup, I forgot the gold diggers... ;)
Dipster
10 Jun 2016 #42
You forgot? (You must be getting old!)
TheOther 5 | 3,682
10 Jun 2016 #43
Ha ha ha. I never needed the "service" of a gold digger because I am happily married.
Chemikiem
10 Jun 2016 #44
I believe that a 28-year-old woman who isn't married or at least engaged has taken lots of wrong decisions.

Crikey, anyone would think she has one foot in the grave ;)

I'm 28 and I'm dating a youthful, smart and kind 19-year-old.

Why aren't you married or engaged then, or is it different rules for men? Or could it be that you have made lots of wrong decisions? ;)
Kezcaisim 1 | 37
11 Jun 2016 #45
I still have time to settle down. Unlike a woman, I don't have a biological clock ticking like crazy. Besides, I don't really want to marry or have children. I'll always be a bachelor. LMAO at men who marry nowadays.
Chemikiem
12 Jun 2016 #46
Unlike a woman, I don't have a biological clock ticking like crazy.

Not every woman wants to get married or have kids, as you yourself don't.
A woman single at 28 may be focusing on her career for example. The days of women being stay at home mums are long gone, not least because it's increasingly harder to support a family on one wage.

Your response is interesting though, and although you're not Polish, you have the attitude of the OP's friends in thinking that at 28, there must be something wrong with a woman to warrant her still single status. Very strange in my opinion!

I'll always be a bachelor.

Give it 20 years and those single 28 year old women will probably look rather appealing to you ;)
Kezcaisim 1 | 37
12 Jun 2016 #47
>women grow up watching movies where women get married to a guy, have kids with him and are happily ever after
>women are easy to influence (as studies have shown)

"Not every woman wants to marry or have children!"

You should look up how depression rates have evolved in the West. Now that women have more freedoms, they are also more miserable. In America, lots of women are dependant on anti-depressants. Gee, who would've thought that money and a career are no substitute for a loving family of your own!
jon357 67 | 16,796
12 Jun 2016 #48
Now that women have more freedoms, they are also more miserable.

I suspect they were a lot more likely to be miserable before. And yes, a 28 year-old used to be on the shelf a bit years ago, though in Poland, not so much so then or now. There have always been expectations, but there are plenty of single people in that age-group here in Poland who are very marriagable (or datable).
Chemikiem
13 Jun 2016 #49
Now that women have more freedoms, they are also more miserable.

Somehow I doubt that, it's just that society as a whole has become more open. Depression is more widely talked about and seen less as a stigma these days. I would imagine women who wanted to go out to work in the past, but were forced to stay at home because that was what was expected of them, would have been very miserable indeed.

who would've thought that money and a career are no substitute for a loving family of your own!

There is nothing wrong with either, but maybe it's not every woman's dream to be tied to the kitchen sink barefoot and pregnant.

At 28, a woman still has lots of choices, it's not too old to have children, and nothing wrong with concentrating on a career first perhaps. You can have both you know!!
Kezcaisim 1 | 37
13 Jun 2016 #50
I would imagine women who wanted to go out to work in the past

You do know that most people hate their jobs and only work so that they can survive? Do you really think someone enjoys to wake up early five days a week so that they can be a slave?

to be tied to the kitchen sink barefoot and pregnant.

That's a very exaggerated image of what being a wife is like. Not even in muslim countries you'd see that.

At 28, a woman doesn't have that many choices. Men her age are dating younger women. Men over her age want to date younger women. Her biological clock is ticking. The likelihood of giving birth to a children with certain illnesses increases significantly. She doesn't look as good as she did when she was 18 or 20.

Again, women age like milk.
Dreamergirl 4 | 273
13 Jun 2016 #51
Depends on the woman how fit she has kept herself and how much work she has had done
jon357 67 | 16,796
13 Jun 2016 #52
Again, women age like milk.

Depends on the person - a lot of men age badly.

At 28, a woman doesn't have that many choices.

The world is her oyster at that very young age.

Men over her age want to date younger women

Really? Most are looking to settle down and some 19 year old kid is often a very bad choice.

Her biological clock is ticking.

Not at 28 it isn't.

She doesn't look as good as she did when she was 18 or 20.

And nor does anyone, male or female

28 is very young indeed.

Give it 20 years and those single 28 year old women will probably look rather appealing to you ;)

Given his attitudes to women as seen in this thread (and the racist stuff in other threads) I'd suggest any woman would look appealing to him however the only ones who are likely to go near him have very low self-esteem indeed.
Kezcaisim 1 | 37
13 Jun 2016 #53
I'd suggest any woman would look appealing to him however the only ones who are likely to go near him have very low self-esteem indeed.

I knew you'd post something like this. If you were experienced enough you'd know that a woman doesn't care about a man's views or opinions as long as she is attracted to him. None of the women I've been with have really cared about my extreme right-wing views. By your "logic", men who see women as equals, and endorse feminist views are drowning in female attention. Even you know that it isn't the case.

Have you ever been to a gym? You sound like that low-testosterone nu-male kind of guy who prides himself in being "modern" and "progressive", all the while talking about equality between the sexes, multiculturalism and democracy. Shouldn't you be on Reddit now?
Chemikiem
14 Jun 2016 #54
Do you really think someone enjoys to wake up early five days a week so that they can be a slave?

Not everyone has a job they hate, and besides, what sort of 'working' hours do you think women looking after their kids have? I can assure you they are 'on duty ' more hours in the day than in any place of work.

At 28, a woman doesn't have that many choices.

Loads of choices! I can't help thinking you are being rather discriminatory here, you are the same age! Would you say you are lacking in choices?

The likelihood of giving birth to a children with certain illnesses increases significantly.

Not at 28 it doesn't.

a woman doesn't care about a man's views or opinions as long as she is attracted to him.

You seem to have a rather low opinion of women. I would say that personality is equally, if not more important than looks talking long term.

She doesn't look as good as she did when she was 18 or 20.

Do you?
rozumiemnic 8 | 3,845
14 Jun 2016 #55
Again, women age like milk.

well that is funny because the women i know that are my age and dating have shown me some of the men of a similar age that are looking for dates, and they are without fail fat, bald and wrinkled. Sometimes we actually sit looking at their pics and laughing. Not nice I know.

While we still look slim and good.....

and women can quite safely have babies until they are well into their forties, and have been doing so for centuries.
It is more likely old sperm that can cause problems It certainly does sound as though you don't like women, Kez, hey that is nothing to be ashamed of. You don't need to prove anything.
Dreamergirl 4 | 273
14 Jun 2016 #56
Men over the age of 28 are no good their kielbasa don't work as well as younger guys and they don't have the stamina
rozumiemnic 8 | 3,845
14 Jun 2016 #57
their kielbasa don't work

exactly dreamer, and who wants a floppy kielbasa?
Dreamergirl 4 | 273
14 Jun 2016 #58
Plus poles under 28 have lithe bodies and good muscle definition and are willing to please and not lazy
Englishman 2 | 278
14 Jun 2016 #59
None of the women I've been with have really cared about my extreme right-wing views.

Actually I think most modern, educated, independent women DO care about a man's opinions. If he comes across as a cave dweller when it comes to the role of women, only a small minority attracted by money and the prospect of being 'kept' will want to know you.

I'm not saying that every man who treats women as equals is drowning in interest from the opposite sex, but at least we stand a chance. This is especially true of Poland, where educational standards for women are high and young women are very happy to explore career options that weren't always available in the past.
Atch 16 | 3,317
14 Jun 2016 #60
Englishman you're absolutely right and also Kez is talking as if seeing women as equal is some weird extremist view held by a minority, whereas it's pretty much the norm for most men nowadays.


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