I dont understand why you would not be named on the birth
cert, unless you dont live in the same home.
Pretty simple really. Go to the registry office and tell them the fathers unknown.
I don't think Anglik needs to post any more info. He has posted enough to show that he does not want to lose contact with his child. Why should he when all he is acheiving is drawing fire from Polishmomma and f-stop who both have their own agenda.
As far as I can see this man has done nothing more than protect his rights as a father in a country that will allow him to do so without the racial prejudice that would occur in a lot of other countries including Poland. Poland has demonstrated it's racist attitudes on numerous occasions through ridiculous Hague Convention rulings.
If people could see the wood through the trees, they could put themselves in exactly the same situation themselves. It does not matter if you are in an interracial relationship/marriage, or a same nationality relationship, it could happen to you, and DON'T believe for a moment it won't. My partner didn't believe me and put her childrens right to see their father ahead of this risk. The rest is history but 6 months of suffering ensued with only one person happy at the carnage, the father.
A simple example that occurs is a Polish couple living in England quarrel daily and husband has enough, books a flight to Poland or drives taking children with him and leaving momma behind. Under international law, he has abducted his children because he has taken them away from the country of their habitual residence without the permission of the other adult with parental authority. Under Polish law, he has done nothing wrong. This is where Polish law fails Polish people terribly even though Poland has ratified the Hague. Sad but true. Unfortunately for the Polish mother, her life is now in control of the father, completely. Of course she has access to the Hague from England but because Poland is obstructive and takes 3 months to get a Hague to a first hearing with amateur judges. Hague hearings take place in family courts with junior judges with little experience or even understanding of international law. Other countries use their High or Supreme courts for such serious affairs. This court will be fiercely against a Hague process and push for the use of the Polish process.
This women is now in despair. While her husband has the children, he has complete control and she will need court orders to see the children. There is nobody in Poland that can help with this situation. Nobody. If she goes with the Polish process, it could take three years to reunite her with her children if at all. What of her life, and more importantly her childrens life in England. Who is thinking of them. The courts are protecting the father, when they should be protecting the children. She could stick with the Hague and be looking at six months but with a case heavily weighted against her. After all Poland produces perfect blond blue eyed children that Norweigens want to steal. (From the Nicola Norway case where Rambo abducted a Polish child taken into care from alchoholic abusive uncaring parents after long period of help and warnings from the Norweigen authorities. These parents were later proclaimed as model parents that all parents should look up to in Poland. Set your standards low enough and no one can knock you down.).
As you can see this is an unholy mess. It is completely unfair that the children should be put through this.
What Anglik has done is the only solution that will benefit the child. The position he has put himself in is to protect his Parental Authority until the courts decide what is better for the child/children. His partner may not be prevented from leaving the country with the child in the future, but she may if the judge decides she will deny Anglik his parental right. Rights of visitation etc.
If his partner leaves the UK with the child before resolving custody etc, without doubt a Polish court would limit or remove parental authority from Anglik.
So my message to Angliks attackers are, wake up, he has done the right thing by the child and this could happen to you too. The only selfish act I see here is the mothers attempt to deny her child a father. This is not her decision or his, because neither parent owns the child, it is a "child of the state
" and it is the states ultimate duty to protect its children. Sometimes parents are so blinded by the situation they are in, that cannot see the damage they are doing and the potential time bomb they are creating which is exactly why we have laws to protect children.
Go take a look at reunite.org and find out as much as you can before its too late for you and your children.