Just wondering if anyone ever want through something like that ... I know polish culture is strict but I think this is ridiculous ... I love my wife and my kids but I miss my family ...
you make your own decisions, there is nothing that says you have to be in arranged marriage right? so you chose your wife , if you mom has such a problem she will die with it
because you dont have the problem.
tell you mother, its her choice, you love her, but you also love your wife and your life as it
is, she has her life to run, your life is seperate, if she wants you in it for good then she needs
to be understanding and her job as a parent is done, its time for her to be a grandmother
and stop acting childish cause its her causing the issues not you.
mother or not, she has no right to be telling you how to run yours. parents are controlling
over their children when they are young , not when they are grown and taking care of them
selfs. you moved in with her, she prob tried to use the your under my roof now . what she
fails to see is that she cant treat other adults like children and she has no right to demand
paternity when its you who is the father,, she didnt carry this child, she is only the grandmother, not the parent, she has no rights other then to see the child and act like a
grandmother, not a crazy mother in law.. I would have stepped in her space and challenged
her,, you should not take your crap from her, mother or not she has not learned to respect
you as her adult son.
it would be different if you married someone who was cheating and taking money, but
she is moving to poland with you, uprooting her other three children to be with you,
and putting up with a crazy mother in law who kicks her out the 3 day she is in poland with
children??? who does that???
I am pretty sure you need to get control of this, your mother needs to be told by you
not your wife, that you are going to stay away until she is done having issues, you love
her but you have a family and if she cant respect that , there is no room in your family for
nonsense.. does she want to be a grandma or a lonely old woman??
ok, done, thats my ten cents :) LOL
been a long work week last week.. :)