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In 2009 nearly 4000 Poles married a foreigner


Monia
21 Mar 2011 #151
Some people say that the beauty lies inside a person I don`t know if it is true , but in my case I first go for what I see .
Midas 1 | 571
21 Mar 2011 #152
^^ Unless they're ugly in which case You go, as we already established, for the money :-)
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535
21 Mar 2011 #153
So Midas, your standards to select a Polish girl is Monia?

She perhaps have her own opinions. Do you really think that in a country as big as Poland, all people have the came way of thinking?

Let me tell you, if you think like that you are considerably wrong. While it is true that there are many Polish girls (specially from the more bigger towns who consider themselves more "liberated") who would go for the money and multiple mates ... there are also Polish women who are much more respectable and prefer a decent family life with one man.

How can you explain my experiences with my own family, my friends and some people who I know? Before you go on saying that I know nothing, I would like to highlight that I am Polish and you are just a visitor or an observer. There is a huuuuge difference right there. You have seen what came infront of you or what you wanted to see, while I see much more.

I do accept some of your points on many Polish girls in UK and those in the big cities of Poland (who usually come into contact with westerners, or strive to get into contact with them). So there it is, it is how they have set their mission and objective in life. A western man is a man who have money, there is a decent Polish poem on it, and I will give you that in my next post because I am in a kind of rush now.

Think about this with the logic you claim you have.
southern 74 | 7,074
21 Mar 2011 #154
She refers to your smile on ugly face.Anyway polish women do not seem to have high standards regarding appearance.They go for effeminate types.But the scandal is when they date totally inferior looking third worldlers who no other white woman would look at let alone touch them.
George8600 10 | 632
21 Mar 2011 #155
For crying out loud, how much of a supremacist is this guy?! ^^^^^^
Monia
21 Mar 2011 #156
Unless they're ugly in which case You go, as we already established, for the money

No , me never , coz I don`t need to and I have never done it . I was talking generally about a type of women going that way . But since I don`t need to chase a wallet I always go for a hot cake .
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535
21 Mar 2011 #157
I always go for a hot cake .

So you should only speak about yourself. Being promiscuous is not really an attribute the Polish can be labeled with. Perhaps there are some, but no need to imply that "we" are as such.
southern 74 | 7,074
21 Mar 2011 #158
I always go for a hot cake .

Thanks.This attitude should prevail.Hot cake and not just a cold kielbasa.I like Polki who cannot resist my overwhelming charm and do not ask for material supplements.
Monia
21 Mar 2011 #159
no need to imply that "we" are as such.

What`s wrong if some of us chose a nice and attractive guy over less attractive . I mean if you have a choice , why not ,otherwise it sounds irrational . Of course I agree that some women don`t have too much options . But it goes both ways .

I don`t understand why you link promiscuity with attractiveness. Attractiveness doesn`t mean promiscuity if you have common sense
southern 74 | 7,074
21 Mar 2011 #160
What`s wrong if some of us chose a nice and attractive guy over less attractive

He wants that polish women marry ugly Indians so he can do business with them.
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535
21 Mar 2011 #161
I don`t understand why you link promiscuity with attractiveness. Attractiveness doesn`t mean promiscuity if you have common sense

Yeah ... its good that you said that. Monia I am not implying anything, all I was trying is to make this Midas clear that things are not like what he says.

He wants that polish women marry ugly Indians so he can do business with them.

Why not Egytians, Turks, Germans as well as the Brown Greeks? ... :D
PolesKiwiWife 1 | 2
21 Mar 2011 #162
Im late to the party (and I'm not even sure I want an invite) but!

I'm a New Zealander married to a Polish guy - absolute angel, sweet, kind, tender and thoughtful, and still very happy after 5 years together. Neither of us expects the other to support the other; we're a partnership, working together to help each other happy and safe.

His uncle is married to a Japanese girl; lovely girl, great guy - they've lived in Poland for a while, lived in Japan for a bit, and now living in London.

His cousins are married to a Mauritian guy (apologies if thats not the right nationality moniker), French girl, Canadian girl and Canadian guy, and Irish girl.

They're just average Poles; tradesmen (plumbers, builders) or higher educated (lawyers, accountants etc), just like the people they've married (stock brokers, accountants, teachers, receptionists etc).

True love doesnt have a colour, let alone nationality.
Monia
21 Mar 2011 #163
I was trying is to make this Midas clear that things are not like what he says.

Of course not ! His point of view is very isolated . Maybe some polish woman ( a sluty type ) gave him a hard time , so no wonder he hates Polish girls. I feel very sorry for people who hold so much hatred towards others . Midas - change your attitude !!!!
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535
21 Mar 2011 #164
True love doesnt have a colour, let alone nationality.

Absolutely :) ... I'm a Pole and I'm married to a Korean myself. Its wonderful.

Nice to know that your husband treats you well. Polish men can be very sensitive too sometimes, all they need is trust and reliability.
southern 74 | 7,074
21 Mar 2011 #165
Maybe some polish woman ( a sluty type )

Does it exist?I actually believe Midas is angry polish women do not let him enjoy his jewish one.He has the touch of gold as the original Midas.
Midas 1 | 571
21 Mar 2011 #166
Ok, I'll tackle You one at a time:

1. Lodz_the_Boat

Absolutely :) ... I'm a Pole and I'm married to a Korean myself. Its wonderful.

What's even more wonderful is that a page ago You were claiming that Polish guys are these narrow-minded, "locked in a box" types that were "unlikely to date a foreigner" and yet here You are - Polish and married happily to a Korean chick.

You're contradicting yourself big time, sir.

So Midas, your standards to select a Polish girl is Monia?

Nope, Monia just came along to happily blend into a stereotype that's already well in existence, due to what many of her female compatriots are doing from Bristol to Aberdeen.

Do you really think that in a country as big as Poland, all people have the came way of thinking?

Nope, I'm not southern. I do believe that there are people with diverse character traits in Poland. All I said ( with examples ) was that due to economic issues ( relatively low GDP, etc. ) and the way women are raised in Poland ( and in Eastern Europe in general ) you are statistically more likely to encounter a money-hungry Polish chick than You are to encounter a money-hungry British chick.

If in 20 years time Poland figures shale gas out and the British start mass-migrating to Rzeszow looking for jobs things might become different.

Right now I'm just calling it how it is.

I would like to highlight that I am Polish and you are just a visitor or an observer. -

I'll let You know that I'm still technically a Polish citizen.

Other than that, judging from what You wrote we might actually be quite close to a consensus on certain matters, though we'd probably disagree on the numbers.

You'd say that the combined amount of Polish women that are either:

a) money-hungry,

and/or

b) ready to suck the balls of everyone with a foreign passport at a drop of a hat,

is low.

I'd say it is rather noticeable and certainly well above average for a non-African, EU country.

2. Monia:

P.5, Monia:

I will try to explain the subject for some of you who are so confused . If a guy is hot and attractive he will get a pleasure of being with us at any time any place , he can pay with only a nice smile , but if a guy is delicately saying unattractive , well then money is an issue .

P. 5, Midas:

Madam, I'm very glad You posted because You exemplify what I wrote about.

You are quite simply a materialistic girl and there are many other Polish women like You.


P.6, Monia:

Some people say that the beauty lies inside a person I don`t know if it is true , but in my case I first go for what I see .

P.6, Midas:

Unless they're ugly in which case You go, as we already established, for the money :-)

P.6, Monia:

No , me never , coz I don`t need to and I have never done it . I was talking generally about a type of women going that way . But since I don`t need to chase a wallet I always go for a hot cake .

Madam, this exchange becomes pointless once You start contradicting Yourself every hour or so.

As I just pointed out, You wrote ( I assume You were of full mental faculties at the time ) that if the guy is unattractive then money "becomes the issue".

I flat out told You that it means You were materialistic, and I was being kind because, quite frankly, what You wrote pretty much describes the way prostitutes act and think.

Now You are trying to wiggle Your way out of Your first post and it isn't really working.

Of course not ! His point of view is very isolated . Maybe some polish woman ( a sluty type ) gave him a hard time , so no wonder he hates Polish girls. I feel very sorry for people who hold so much hatred towards others . Midas - change your attitude !!!!

My point of view isn't really that isolated. A great amount of British and Irish middle class consider Polish girls to be women of low moral standards, only they are kind enough not to express this opinion publicly all that often.

Now that's directly tied into the behaviour of some ( I underline - some ) Polish women from London/Dublin/loads of over places.

Of course I am well aware that in Poland on the average a girl can pull off one slutty trick every four months, say "Kobieta zmienna jest" or some other crap and everyone will still think she's "a good girl". That's not the way things work outside Polish borders, though.

Regarding the rest of Your "argument" - I am not "changing my attitude" because it is based on years of experience with Polish people and Polish women, with me having a Polish passport on top of things. Also, I don't really think that You have the "qualifications" necessary to tell me to "change my attitude". Please keep such statements for Your doormat boyo/husband back in Poland.

Also - I don't hate anyone. I just think that for very logical reasons ( years of communism and resulting inferiority complex, low amounts of personal property, low wages, princess syndrome that has to do with upbringing ) the amount of Polish women that are either money-hungry go-getters or willing to spread for a foreigner just because of his passport is higher than in other countries.

Now for some odd reason women from Eastern Europe always take it as a personal insult, despite the fact that it is true. I find this attitude somewhat unique. Many a times I told a British lass that I am somewhat shocked by the amount of drinks many British girls will pour into themselves on a Friday night and it was never taken as a personal attack.

3. Last but not the least, southern.

I actually believe Midas is angry polish women do not let him enjoy his jewish one.He has the touch of gold as the original Midas.

The only thing that ever got me miffed on PF was the kind of anti-semitism I believed was long extinct. Apart from that I rarely get angry. However I am logical and I will tell things like they are.

Regarding my personal life, I am in a stable, happy if somewhat complicated by our respective careers, relationship with a Jewish woman that's not particularly religious. Haven't tied the knot yet, though.
southern 74 | 7,074
21 Mar 2011 #167
I think Monia put it quite clearly.She said girls with no money pay attention to ugly guys with money but since I don't have financial problems I look for cute ones.''

So she is not contradicting herself.
I agree that the number of polish women who give it for little money(Kleingeld) is extraordinarily high.Russian usually go for the big kahoona.(bankers,businessmen etc).
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535
21 Mar 2011 #168
You're contradicting yourself big time, sir.

I am not. If you re read that post which I made, all I meant that Polish men would chose a Polish girl mostly if it has to be a white girl whom he will marry.

You yourself told about some Jamaican girl ... so in this case you proved me right that the Polish man was attracted to the girl of another race, if it had to be out of Poland.

Polish men do find interest in Asian girls, not so much, but if they go out of the usual Polish/Ukrainian or Russians ... they do take a look as Asian girls as they are cute :).

Otherwise, if its a white girl he is to marry, whats the big difference?

^^ this is exactly what I said ... you can read it cant you?
George8600 10 | 632
21 Mar 2011 #169
as the Brown Greeks?

If Southern was brown he wouldn't be making all those supremacist comments...
Monia
21 Mar 2011 #170
Midas - read what I said " Yes ,we were money oriented , we are and we will be always and yes we will date 3 guys simultaneously ,amen " .

That was very sarcastic comment to your statement . Sorry that you didn`t get it .
It means exactly what it says , there are some money oriented women who will take money from a man , but I belong to another money oriented group , this group makes money themselves.

You start contradicting Yourself every hour or so.

I am very sorry that your comprehension of my comments is so distorted . If you try to focus on what I have already said you will get to the point , just strain your brain for a while .

You were born in Poland and you hold polish passport ( you said so ) , but I can see that you don`t call yourself Polish . I bet in your passport it says " nationality - Polish" . So don`t spit on us coz you are also part of us . Don`t even use a word antisemitism on every possible occasion . You, yourself used so many anti- polish slogans that I might ask the moderator to suspend you for your sexist remarks about polish women .

Tell me the story about your broken heart by a Polish girl .

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