6 months with my Polish girlfriend and I still don't understand her..

To OP,

I think that if you can't figure out the person you're with maybe they're not right for you...

Just sayin'

It's like a dance. You take the lead, but you let her go and spin around every once in a while.

;)

i have been year with my polish girlfriend and she never stop talk about lipstick .....


they will end up like this > youtube.com/watch?v=e4OzHWvVyb8&feature=related

Thats great..... i wish i could learn that for my wedding in Russia.... love it...

oh c'mon don't be so stingy, be a sport and buy her that lipstick

"that" ! u talk about only one? i will buy if she don't have tons in home :D

I have noticed that polish girls talk quite a lot about clothes,shoes,lipstick and cosmetics and much less about football,cars and women.

you have to be happy man.
your so lucky to have a polish girls , they are awsome part of my dreams =)
im latin guy, very attractive by the way, but i dont the time to travel to poland =(

Dude, there is thousands of those girls on those Polish dating sites, one of them is polishhearts.co.uk,
I found my crazy chick there, do not know if I can really recommend( as she is nuts) , but you definitively find there polish girlfriend, new one,

Before you get it for long time and you get married to one, you need to taste a few of them, than you will know:

Are they all fu...ed up or is it just your one?
Good luck!

Understand whimpering, self pity, vanity and weakness and you'll get it ;)

Generally a decent banging can solve most problems.

To the OP poster, you maybe never will. Be yourself, be tolerant but stand up to intrusions into your space.

That reply should receive criticism for sexism, but it's actually non-sexist and completely true if you actually understand what Seanus is really getting at.

Of all the women I've dated, the ones who have threatened to leave me are always the ones who panicked like crazy if I called their bluff and threatened to leave them. It's all a front - they can't bear to be without you, so they put on this "I don't need you, I'm so hot, so I can always get someone else if I want" act to get a response; the purpose of which, of course, is to make sure that you stay :)

Sidliste, as ever, is right on the money. Right on the mark. I have sth in mind when I post and, of course, there are many many decent Polish girls that don't fit the adjectives I chose to post. He read exactly what I was trying to say. Regardless of any label some may choose to affix to me for my comments, it's merely observation based on extensive looking around. I also have Scottish women as a yardstick. Here, all too many make a lunge for the pills due to a 'poor me' approach. Scottish women don't cry like little girls for the most part when a cold comes on or some inconvenience pops up. They think, 'oh, what a pis*er, better get on with it'. The vanity, for me, is the worst part. If you think being a prima donna is laudable, be my guest. The new materialists.

We're two of comparatively few people on here who actually understand how Polish women are (due to lengthy experience), yet I'm the one who gets threatened with a suspension lol. Maybe I should just start asking dumb questions like "are all Polish women greedy gold-digging tramps", or trying to find out how I can get out of India and into Poland; in which case, I would have stayed "on-topic" and wouldn't risk threats from mods who can't do their jobs properly. To the OP: it will take you more than 6 months to understand, but that's the way they are. They are usually worth the effort though.

This vulnerability is the reason they choose foreigners.Anyway I don't want to lose my mental state so I avoid deepening in the mysteries and extraordinary behaviors of Poli.I take them as they are as you take rain,storms etc and other physical procedures.

What can I say to that? I echo everything and give it the thumbs up, Sid. There are no agendas here and people would do well to realise what this is, a forum. I reiterate what George Galloway said in his recent Comment radio broadcast/talkshow. He was disgusted, as I was, that people walked out on Ahmedinejad for merely stating truisms. You know what? If you want to contest what we say (Sid and I), come with reasoned arguments and not half-baked, emotive defences with virtually no foundation. Superficial behaviour doesn't require Freudian/Jungian analyses ;)

In my opinion Polki need a constant flow of flesh inside them they are hungry and never satisfied sexually that is why they keep an army of boyfriends alive and kicking.By the time you leave their room another one comes.They have relationship with their boss,one sponsor who pays the rent,one who pays the general expenses,one good equipped in terms of pen1s and one weak sissy for their emotional needs.In this environment all bfs can be a bit angry since they find their roles uncompleting.

Southern, come on, I thought Greeks were supposed to be good at analysing things beyond that which you choose to focus on ;)

Any more help with the OP's points, southern?

What are his points that cannot be explained?Polki are not available when you want but when they want.For example when they are horny or need urgently pienadze.So you just have to wait the right time keeping yourself meanwhile busy with the Russaye.

OK, please talk about the availability point then. It could be salient and revealing ;)

apsou
i m nearly a year with my polish girl or girlfriend i don't how is our relationship she is so strange we fell out many times because she want everything they are not easy at all ...........still confusing !!!

I bet she's worth it though if your relationship has lasted an entire yr ;)

Polish girls are moody and unstable.However Ukrainki are even worse totally mental and with temper fluctuations so really there is no reason to understand them since we lack the slavic genes that would allow a glimpse.From my experience a lot of solutions to common conflicts resides within our wallets it is the only means to calm down a bit the uproaring polish soul.

I thought about this Slavic tendency you said is well known among Greeks (Slavs as always blue, moody people) and I found out that Serbs (and Croats too) don't display it as much as Russians I had the chance to observe. If it exists it is happening more to those who are mixed more with Mediterranean people here. And then it has a different image than expected (acting outs, kind of). Any idea why?

And I compared for my Master work Rorschach protocols of American and Serbian patients with depressive disorder and discovered something comparative psychiatry discovered 100 years ago before my fantastic scientific endeavor, that is that depression has different expression in different cultures. While Americans tend to be more open about it, seek help, or escape to phantasy life, our people develop either hypochondriasis or hostile type of depression, passive aggressive. Interesting.

Huge levels of slavic depression has sank in seas of vodka.Serbs and Croats as results of mix with more mood stable individuals who preexisted in the region do not display the crescendo of emotions common among more pure Slavs.Especially female slavic populations let their natural moodiness burst in an unopposed manner where even the heavy Balkan hand fails to suppress.

The moodiness is hard to bear. I mean, many women are moody by nature but it really takes the biscuit here. I can't be doing with it and have been uncharacteristically speaking out more and more. They seem to think it fine to encroach into the space of others with their whims, IT'S NOT.

Dude I don't think there is a man in this world other than Hugh Heifner and the dude from the Dos Equis beer commercials that fully understands a women be they from Poland or Venus! Just be real and don't fake the funk or you will end up getting in a jam that may take 18 years to shake off.

To no one in particular, but I saw a funny quote today under the solemn picture of Dr. Freud:
"Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure you are not, in fact, just surrounded by a$$holes."

Superb, F stop.