again, i don't know why you are making this personal. i just don't get it.
Gosh, a bit of banter makes you angry... don't be so serious!
I saw many times handsome men with not the most beautiful women, to put it mildly, so what? Obviously they feel good with companionship of each other.
From times immemorial it is wise to leave judgment on looks of men for women. What you find attractive in women, irks you in men because you are used to different standards.
I can tell you that the same way women are not good in judging attractiveness of other women, men are terrible in judging attractiveness of men. If you asked a substantial amount of women what is the ideal female look and asked the same question to men, the answers between them would be worlds apart. Ideal male look likewise.