Lenka 5 | 3,407 25 Jan 2013 #31Everybody in this forum say ''I don't approve that'' but if she doesn't do that, she wouldn't find out!!For me checking somebody else's massages,mail and that sort of thing is a betrayal.Simple as that.
OP Caraj 25 Jan 2013 #32Is it not a betrayal what he did? He sat by me night after night writing messages in a language I don't understand properly and lied to me when I questioned it? :/
Lenka 5 | 3,407 25 Jan 2013 #33Firstly-I refered to general idea,not your situation.Secondly-of course his behaviour was a betrayal.Thirdly-two wrongs don't make a right.He behaved terribly and I already said that you should leave him but how would you feel if his conversations were totally innocent?
OP Caraj 25 Jan 2013 #34Girls know these things though. He started logging out of Facebook every night after this happened. If it was just a normal friend he wouldn't be like that. The signs were all there he was cheating. He has lots of girls he chats too but I only checked her conversation cos I knew there was more to it
Lenka 5 | 3,407 25 Jan 2013 #35Girls know these things though.You were right but just look around this forum and you'll realise that this argument is not worth a thing.Many ppl come here with "stolen" conversations and ask for translation.Usually it's just their obsession.