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Polish guys who have never had girlfriends


Polishlover2009 3 | 10
23 Mar 2009  #1
What are they like to date as I am dating a Polish boy who has never. He is very nervous and shy around me, is this natural? He is pretty open and honest with me, however he does not want to rush into things quickly

How long will it take him to actually want me as a girlfriend? As in how many dates...

We are both in our late 20's
Grzegorz_ 51 | 6,163
23 Mar 2009  #2
We are both in our late 20's

And he has really never ?
Wulkan - | 3,255
23 Mar 2009  #4
Polish guys who have never had girlfriends

Hard to say cause I don't know anybody like this in his late 20's
Juche 9 | 292
23 Mar 2009  #5
this situtation is difficult to analyze becasue situation is highly unusual and rare. probably he has never had girlfriend because he refuses to commit to one, he instead is interested in the collective.
Arien 3 | 721
23 Mar 2009  #6
Okay, so I've never had a girlfriend before the age of 25. I'm obviously not the same person as the guy you're dating, but I could probably answer a few of your questions and hope it'll make sense.

:)

It's natural to be shy around a girl you really like, and to be nervous about what she may think of you. It means you're important to him! (Atleast what you may think of him is very important to him!)

That he never had a girlfriend may not mean he refuses to commit to one, because it could just aswell mean the exact opposite?

I mean, he might've been ahead of his age, and he may believe in true love, and he may be very serious about relationships. (Atleast it sounds as if he does, because he's obviously not rushing into anything!) I recall a few girls wanting something of me when I was younger, and although I really liked the idea and was sexually interested, I knew they weren't too serious about things, and I found that difficult to deal with when I was younger. It all just meant very much to me. (You know, pink clouds, marriage, and probably too much of silly and romantic ideas.)

Maybe I shouldn't have, but hey, I only had brothers, so what did I know about girls really? I'd like to add that my situation differs, because I've been a scapegoat where I live, and it's hard to get to know people when you're the subject of gossip and slander, because some other people think you're all different and weird. (Just like you've put it, highly unusual? It's not as unusual as you think though, and I'm just speaking up because I'm passed that stage already!) I don't know about his situation though, and like I've said, I'm not the same guy.

Just be yourself, and let him be himself, and try to understand it's all new to him. Oh, and don't set up any time tables, because you can't exactly plan or schedule when someone is supposed to want you, or love you, or to be ready for you.

I hope this made sense, what I'm trying to tell you is that it probably all means very much to him, and that in many ways, that could be a very good, and very special thing for you.

:)
anja_rose 3 | 37
24 Mar 2009  #7
I know of a few guys like this actually, in fact one of my in laws has just last year met his first at 29 (he was her first too at the same age) things have moved fast they are engaged, living together and will soon be married, she is excited about starting a family.

He is from a small rural town in pl and takes love seriously, i think its lovely.
I can relate to that having only one love in my whole life whol is my pl guy and never having any interest to 'fool around' with anyone without meaning.

I am not slating people who dont agree this was just right for me and i know its also right for a lot of others, guys included.
T_V 2 | 9
25 Mar 2009  #8
Awwww I think its really sweet!!

Maybe he's a little like I was. There were opportunities to date but I was picky & looking for the right kind of lady. It wasnt about sex it was about hoping to find someone who was the right person to have a relationship with.

Just take it slow with him & enjoy it. If he doesnt make a move after a few wks then why dont you make the 1st move?

Good luck!!
sister act 2 | 88
4 Apr 2009  #9
[quote=Polishlover2009]
He is very nervous and shy around me, is this natural? He is pretty open and honest with me, however he does not want to rush into things quickly[/quote

Give it ago he seems nice, as long as he is kind to you, everybodys different But I really worry for you that mother had him close all those years she will not let go of him easy,
frd 7 | 1,399
8 Apr 2009  #10
People gain a lot of experience while beeing in a relationship, he wasn't in any relationship earlier so he will be gaining this experience while beeing with you which isn't a really good thing at all.. if you are an adult then you will probably understand that. The first relationship ( and maybe even some more ) is usually discovering what we really need and what we expect from the other half.. and that might be blood sweat and tears..
Wyspianska
13 Jun 2009  #11
What are they like to date as I am dating a Polish boy who has never. He is very nervous and shy around me, is this natural? He is pretty open and honest with me, however he does not want to rush into things quickly

How long will it take him to actually want me as a girlfriend? As in how many dates...

We are both in our late 20's

I'm jealous. I want a Polish virgin. He will stay faithful and you can be sure he won't have diseases ha ha.
niejestemcapita 2 | 561
13 Jun 2009  #12
I want a Polish virgin

I suppose you could put an advert in the WANTED column of your local newspaper..:)
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
13 Jun 2009  #13
I want a Polish virgin. He will stay faithful and you can be sure he won't have diseases ha ha.

he might've not done it with a woman but you can never tell where he put it before and if it's disease free ha ha...
Wyspianska
13 Jun 2009  #14
Oh that's gross. Polish men don't do things like that. We are good catholic people.

I suppose you could put an advert in the WANTED column of your local newspaper..:)

I really don't have to do that. I'm currently getting more attention from boys than I would want to but thanks for advice :-)
niejestemcapita 2 | 561
13 Jun 2009  #15
I'm currently getting more attention from boys than I would want

cool...take your pick....;)
Seanus 15 | 19,707
13 Jun 2009  #16
Gimnazjum boys don't count, do they? ;)
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
13 Jun 2009  #17
Oh that's gross. Polish men don't do things like that. We are good catholic people.

you would be surprised ha ha

gimnazjum boys eww jail bait ;D
Wyspianska
13 Jun 2009  #18
Ha ha Perhaps I should make a casting. Or just ask them which one is a virgin.

gimnazjum boys? młode mięso?
niejestemcapita 2 | 561
13 Jun 2009  #19
Ha ha perhaps I should make a casting

hehe yes...you could make them all do a quiz with trick questions...:) Yknow..."mostly A mostly B etc"

Or just ask which one of them is a virgin.

Nah they will all lie..:)
Wyspianska
13 Jun 2009  #20
Nah they will all lie..:)

True. Men are liars. Don't I know it.
lukimp80 1 | 74
13 Jun 2009  #21
He is very nervous and shy around me, is this natural?

Did you ever consider the fact that he might be gay? You may not have the tools that he is looking for.?
Wyspianska
14 Jun 2009  #22
I think you're going too far. It's very cute he never had a girlfriend, and far better than if he shagged a few s&*lutbags before you and then another one after you or during when he was with you so you have to go and check whether you don't have any English germs on you. Now that story sounds familiar to me.
nunczka 8 | 458
14 Jun 2009  #23
I wouldn't know. I never had that experience. From what I read on this forum, there are not too many girls that I would want to shag on here. Gone are the days when girls were girls and men were men.
Wyspianska
14 Jun 2009  #24
Gone are the days when girls were girls and men were men.

Yes, especially when you look at your username.
nunczka 8 | 458
14 Jun 2009  #25
When was the last time that you had a blood test????
Juche 9 | 292
14 Jun 2009  #26
In Peoples Democatic Republic of North Korea we have gorlfriend assigned by state collective, in Poland govenrment should also do this and would solve all problem of Poland working peoples.
Wyspianska
14 Jun 2009  #27
When was the last time that you had a blood test????

It's none of your business.
nunczka 8 | 458
14 Jun 2009  #28
My, My Touchy, touchy.

Please, stop flaming.
Kapusta 2 | 66
14 Jun 2009  #29
When was the last time that you had a blood test????

In Poland (and much the rest of Europe) this is not a question a polite male would ask a female in public. It would be part of a more intimate conversation done in private. So don't be surprised at the answer you received.


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