Polish guy who has a girlfriend.

Hello! This might sound weird but I'm liking a Polish guy who has a gf. Unfortunately.

I met this guy during their business trip. He's friends are my friends too. We hungout most of the time during his stay. And had been very close to each other. I know he has a girlfriend so I decided that it's best to be friends only but it seemed that he got very comfortable with me. I always caught him staring at me. He always talked to me and whenever we hangout with friends, he's always on my side even I'm with my girlfriends. Honestly, everyone thought there's something going on between us. But we are just friends. When it was the time for him to leave, I took him to the airport to say goodbye. To my surprise, he kissed me on my forehead and cheeks. Also, he hugged me tight. I was astounded so I didn't know how to react.

He went back to Poland but we still keep messaging everyday from morning til night. He calls me whenever he's not busy at work (usually 3-4 times a week). He's been very caring about me. I was wondering if his girlfriend knew this. So I told him that I will visit Poland on winter. He said that he will tour me around. I told him that I want to meet his girlfriend, too! But he said that it wouldn't be a good idea. I don't know why? All his friends (guy friends) know me! And he said that he talked a lot about me. Now, I'm wondering why he is like that?

I hope to hear from you guys! I'm very confused.

Because a girl friend is literal. ' girl friend'. A friend who is female. Lol. Its not his wife. People have many gf or bf before they marry or whatever, until they find the right person. So he has a gf, so what. Sounds like he likes you better. We all spend time on this ****** planet looking for someone right for us, this is a classic example from the sounds of it.

Thank you for replying to me. He and his girlfriend have been together for 3 years. And I guess, I friend zoned him! It's better to be bffs, I told him. I don't know Polish guys that much. It's my first time to meet Polish people. I don't know how to react about this thing. Recently, he told me that his girlfriend is a jealous woman specially when she finds out about me. He is confusing me a lot. He cares about his girlfriend but then he cares a lot about me too! What a life! Hahaha

He is confusing me a lot with that kiss on the forehead.

It's like a kiss still but he didn't dare go further. A warm up, yes i like you but......testing ground. As for 3 years with gf...no babies, not married, not going anywhere? People get married for 30 years and get divorced, so a gf for 3 years is not all that much.

If they are 18. If over 25, 3 years way too long. This is when a woman should start a timer. If in 12 months he is not on his knee, it's time to walk no matter what he says.

@Rich Mazur
I'm not confused with the kiss! I'm confused on how he treated me. He is like more than a friend. He tells me what his plans for the week and what why he couldn't message and be sorry for that. Lol!

@TheWizard
They will be 4 this year, I guess. And he told me once that he sees his gf to be with him forever but he also told me that they are not really in the same picture. They have different opinions and view in life. She is included in his short term plans but never in the long ones! Lol

Can i ask your nationality?

I'm from the Philippines and I currently live in Japan.

Red Flag! This chick sounds like a psycho, do widzenia!

@Joker Isn't it weird that he treats me like a friend but he doesn't want to introduce me to his girlfriend? I don't think it is a good sign to hide me?

Before joker responds i don't think it's weird at all. In fact i would never do this.