give them some coins, banknots not necessary, just some coins enough. btw, i understand your husbands reaction, as it must be "white" thing that is attractive to him. same for white polish women, they are attracted to non-whites. i find native americans with bloody red skins very attractive. any nice native american girl around there? let me know.
there are many good honest ladies who are indigenous to usa, sadly white "ladies" seem to be in high demand, if you want to be with a real lady who will be faithful, go brown. (or as you said,"red") yes, thank you! we are easy on the eyes!