POLISH GIRL I REALLY LIKE, BUT she says we have no future

I think that you will find that everything seems to work on the internet because you can often forget very important circumstances such as how are you going to find work, if you move to poland for instance ?

I met a Polish girl that i am dating , whilst i was working in America. You can't expect someone to instantly say "i love you" you say you have talked for 2 months online , but realistically you have only known her 2 days.

Just play it cool and see how it pans out, from experience with women , the more you ask the questions they don't want to hear the more you **** them off and they leave you ! ha ha

I'll translate for you:

There wasnt the spark, she's not too interested.

Harsh but IMO true.

2 days is probably not enough time for most people to fall into an actual love, regardless of of gender, ethnicity, etc.

Best. Statement. Ever :)))

I would like to ask the IMF how we are supposed to finance the Polki in this environment.At least we don't pay polkotax.

so... how can one join such group?

I was married to a polish girl for 12 years don't make a mistake of your life .stay away

what? she had actually something to say in this marriage??

Polish women...spawn of the devil..!

There was too much salt in the soup?


Perhaps she did chose once by herself what to cook and that was the end...

I met a Polish girl in krakow at the weekend. She was awesome actually, and pretty. We got on really well and she thought so, but maybe just wants to be friends, unclear yet, but the trip to this beautiful city and her friends, have helped to change my opinion of Polish women, which was honestly a bit negative. But that trip has helped me see some good sides of the Poles. She was really awesome.

She can,t have been Polish then...must have been one of those Japanese girls...!

They all are, until they break your heart.

I guess that here the point is to know how to keep the flame of the love alive. Even if that girl has said you she's not sure enough you've to act the way it feels more comfortable for her in order to not upset her because it'll be difficult for both if you haven't got patience. This girl may feel stressed with all of this, and for that I think you should wait her in decisions she makes cuz in the end could be better for you and for her, because as you said, she's not in love at all, so waiting and with patience this love will progress (it's just my opinion) And as far as I know, there are not too reasons to feel bad or so so confuse: you have actually already met her and was good, so this should work for the moment, in other cases it's clear that doesn't work, but in that case, why not?

Even 2 seconds can be enough. Even 20 years may not be enough.

Lets say. Bill Gates is single and knocked your door one night and said "i love you", how long would it take to kiss him? 2 seconds.

You marry him and if he starts to loose his wealth with marriage, how long would it take to kick him out? 20 years.

And you could add: How long would it take to kick him out if he starts to loose his fortune? 2 seconds

xDD

If she saw your wallet and said you don't have a future together, believe her.

Haven't you already answered the question yourself?

So you like her...



Time to move onto some next girl innit. Simples!

Hey Everyone I Am Fahad And Ive Been In Poland Since One Month I Need Some Help I Am Really Confused....
I Study At A University And There I Met This Girl Shes Very Beautifull And Calm I Was Really Attracted To Her And I began talking to her after one or two times we talked i was coming back home and i found that she also comes back from university from the same way so when we came near to my home i asked her for a tea or coffee and she agreed and we had a great time laughing and easy going chat and stuff............

And Then Next Day I Was Standing Outside My Home And She Came And When She Saw Me She Gave A Smile I Shook Hands With Her said her "hello how are you"

and asked her its too cold maybe you would like to have some tea/coffee but she replied to me that WHY AM I INVITING HER and she doesnt WANTS TO GIVE ME A WRONG IMPRESSION i was shocked to listen that i didnt understood what she meant and then she said she had some home work to do and she went giving a smile

hope some one can help me ut

the first time she was being polite

the second time she was busy... or maybe she got the wrong idea... or maybe you should have given it a bit more time... or maybe it's time to move on.

Thanks Wroclaw for ur answer but she is really a strange girl she is always quite,alone never seen her with someone not even friends and what do u mean by time to move on?

I think she was just putting her cards on the table from the outset, thus protecting herself against a possible future hurt. There are plenty more fish in the sea but free up some time, they take a lot of work ;)

polish women can often seem direct when the speak English, which is honestly refreshing at list she hasn't strung you along. move on and be happy. love will find you, not you it.

My wife was and is always direct when she speaks, which is great because you know exactly where you stand.

yea maybe but i'm really falling for her