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Different relationship... can it work with Pakistani girl and Polish guy?



gtd 3 | 639    
2 Nov 2008  #31

Right...I don't think Sweet G is going to be coerced into somethnig like that. She seems more aware. I am just saying depending on how extreme her families beliefs are this is a very real worry. It is very wrong and evil really...but can't be ignroed.


Bartolome 2 | 1,086    
2 Nov 2008  #32

because they think we dishonour our culture

Not too consistent that culture of yours.
Lodz_The_Boat 33 | 1,535    
2 Nov 2008  #33

Thats why I said...the culture to the vulture...!
southern 76 | 7,116    
2 Nov 2008  #34

...girls...polish girls...married with Indians!...bangladesh people!...

What a disgrace.

because they think we dishonour our culture

What culture?
OP sweet_g 4 | 79    
2 Nov 2008  #35

i wouldnt go deep into my problems on here, so that everyone can read. That is why i write LOL LMAO, when i dont really mean it. I know what i have to do. I will do it.
osiol 55 | 3,927    
2 Nov 2008  #36

What culture?

You obviously don't know the meaning of the word.
OP sweet_g 4 | 79    
2 Nov 2008  #37

pakistani culture and tradition
southern 76 | 7,116    
2 Nov 2008  #38

Who needs this?
Seanus 15 | 19,750    
2 Nov 2008  #39

As Bob Dylan said southern, "don't criticize what you can't understand".

What do u understand of Pakistani culture and traditions?
OP sweet_g 4 | 79    
2 Nov 2008  #40

i dont need it
Seanus 15 | 19,750    
2 Nov 2008  #41

Please outline a few Pakistani traditions sweet_g. Thank u
southern 76 | 7,116    
2 Nov 2008  #42

What do u understand of Pakistani culture and traditions?

i dont need it

Do you see?She has the maturity to recognize and join the slavic culture.
osiol 55 | 3,927    
2 Nov 2008  #43

i dont need it

Which one are you talking about now?

The words of Bob Dylan?
Southern's comments?
Pakistani tradtions?
Seanus 15 | 19,750    
2 Nov 2008  #44

And what exactly is ur conception of "the Slavic culture"?
southern 76 | 7,116    
2 Nov 2008  #45

We can talk for hours on this issue.
For me slavic culture is the general attitude of Slavs towards life,their Weltanschaung which is distinct and appears in several forms.
mafketis 16 | 4,249    
2 Nov 2008  #46

because they think we dishonour our culture

In 'your' culture your sexuality and your life are the property of your male relatives who can trade it or sell it (or dispose of it) as they see fit. "Honour" is a mighty fancy word used to cover a very ugly reality. Don't kid yourself.

You might want to dump Pakistani culture and embrace British/Western culture where you have to make your own important life decisions instead of being used as a commodity for the prestige of male relatives. If they won't accept your Polish boyfriend it's because they've never accepted you. Again, face the facts. I might sound harsh but sometimes that's what's called for.

If this Polish man means something to you, you need to be able disappear and say goodbye to your culture forever. You might think your family isn't capable of violence against you but there are lots of dead Asian girls in the UK that thought the same thing.
Dice 15 | 456    
2 Nov 2008  #47

We can talk for hours on this issue.

I can't, but I'm sure you and Crow could. Not for hours, but for days, months, years. Hundreds, thousands of posts.
southern 76 | 7,116    
2 Nov 2008  #48

but I'm sure you and Crow could.

Yes,Crow is a Slav with mediteranean passion.
Wroclaw 45 | 5,409    
2 Nov 2008  #49

If this Polish man means something to you, you need to be able disappear and say goodbye to your culture forever.

That might not be such a good idea. sweet_g has never met the boyfriend's family. If he had problems with his family accepting her... then what.
Seanus 15 | 19,750    
2 Nov 2008  #50

Exactly, acceptance may be a major obstacle here. I think a large part of my acceptance was that I was white, I really do. Gradually, u pass the various character assessments and all is well. It's getting that chance tho, prejudice is a brutal beast
Filios1 8 | 1,336    
2 Nov 2008  #51

Yes,Crow is a Slav with mediteranean passion.

And you are a Greek with Slavic passion.
OP sweet_g 4 | 79    
2 Nov 2008  #52

1. Marry your dads decision.
2. Take sh*t from your husband.
3. Ditch college and become baby making machines.
4. Maybe get forced to cover up.
5. Arranged marraiges from back home (ewww).
6. Thats just some of them.
southern 76 | 7,116    
2 Nov 2008  #53

You should adopt polish girls' fashion sense and style and appear home.Your relatives will live a culture shock.They will say:''I cannot believe.Our daughter became a bloody kurwa.''
OP sweet_g 4 | 79    
2 Nov 2008  #54

kurwa? Y did you call me that?
Wroclaw 45 | 5,409    
2 Nov 2008  #55

ignore it sweet_g
southern 76 | 7,116    
2 Nov 2008  #56

kurwa? Y did you call me that?

I mean your relatives will call you like that.
Seanus 15 | 19,750    
2 Nov 2008  #57

He didn't mean it sweet_g, it's his SOH
southern 76 | 7,116    
2 Nov 2008  #58

it's his SOH

Yes,like your relatives will be polonized as well and use the word kurwa.
Wroclaw 45 | 5,409    
2 Nov 2008  #59

I think he meant react against your folks... show some fighting spirit.

edit: Oh! OK
OP sweet_g 4 | 79    
2 Nov 2008  #60

oryt...i wouldnt dress up that bad anyway to be called.




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